Do you ever wonder if those who teach/preach are actually living in line with what they tell you to do?  I often talk about the Wizard of Oz and when Dorothy sees beyond the illusion of the Wizard. Today's guest Zac Bissonnette is here to take us behind the green door of many thought leaders, influencers, and athletes who live out of alignment with what they say.

Zac has been on the show before where he pulled the curtains open on higher education when we discussed his first book  Debt-Free U. His latest book is Good Advice from Bad People.  I'm looking forward to another eye-opening conversation with Zac.

There’s no real vetting process to becoming an icon in America.

~ Zac Bissonnette, on How She Really Does It

Look for independant evidence of what they have done and don’t become to reliant on one source.

~ Zac Bissonnette, on How She Really Does It

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John O'Sullivan is the Founder of the Changing the Game Project, an initiative to educate parents, coaches and athletes about the positive benefits of youth athletics, and the need to remove adult priorities and values from our children's' sports. He is the author of the national bestselling book Changing the Game: The Parents Guide to Raising Happy, High-Performing Athletes and Giving Youth Sports Back to Our Kids, and  has been featured by the Huffington Post. He  speaks about developing more competitive, high-achieving athletes by building environments of love and respect, rather than fear and pressure.

John spent nearly three decades as a soccer player and coach on the youth, high school, college and professional level.

John is here to talk about why it’s the race to nowhere in youth sports and what we can do to course correct and bring youth sports back to the children.

When I was growing up, youth sports was about children competing against other children. Today, all too often it is about adults competing against other adults through their children. This is driving our kids out of sports, and this needs to change!

~ John O’Sullivan

“Athletics like anything else is an education and it’s a process.  It takes a long time to be proficient at anything.”

~ John O’Sullivan, on How She Really Does It

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Gay Hendricks, Ph.D., has been a leader in the fields of relationship transformation and bodymind therapies for over 45 years. After earning his Ph.D. in counseling psychology from Stanford, Gay served as professor at the University of Colorado for 21 years.

He has written and co-authored (with Katie) 35 books, including the bestseller Conscious Loving, used as a primary text in universities around the world.

Gay is here to talk about our human potential and how to get there.

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Jill Farmer has been called a brilliant time optimizer and life maximizer.  She is a former Emmy Award winning investigative TV reporter and anchor who now helps people get epic things accomplished in far less time.

Jill Farmer is the author of There's Not Enough Time and Other Lies We Tell Ourselves which debuted as a Top-10 bestseller in the Time Management category on Amazon.

“Stop the vortex of ‘not enough.”

~ Jill Farmer, on How She Really Does It

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Mass advertising.  We are constantly interrupted with sales messages.  In 2013 we spent $500 billion globally on advertising.  Is it working?

Bernadette Jiwa is the author of three #1 Amazon Bestsellers on marketing, Make Your Idea Matter and The Fortune Cookie Principle and her latest book Difference: The one-page method for reimagining your business and reinventing your marketing.

She is a brand story and marketing strategist working with entrepreneurs and business leaders from around the world, helping them to apply difference thinking' to their businesses so they can intentionally craft and tell brand stories that communicate their difference.

Bernadette's blog TheStoryofTelling.com was voted the Best Australian Business Blog in 2012 and she  has been described as the female Seth Godin of the marketing world .

Bernadette is here to discuss the Difference and why story is so important in building your business.

“It isn’t the person with the best idea who wins; it’s the person who has the greatest understanding of what really matters to people.”

~ Bernadette Jiwa, Difference

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We strive to be Happy but we have these darn negative emotions in our lives.  Some of us try to run from them via food, alcohol/drugs, sex, work, or exercise. 

Have you ever thought your feelings were a messenger here to tell you something important?

Karla McLaren is an award-winning author, researcher, and pioneering educator whose empathic approach to emotions revalues even the most negative emotions, and opens startling new pathways into the depths of the soul. She is the author of The Art of Empathy: A Complete Guide to Life's Most Essential Skill (2013), The Language of Emotions: What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You (2010).

Karla has taught at such venues as the University of San Francisco, and the Omega Institute.

Karla is here to discuss what your feelings are trying to tell you.

We end up growing up with no emotional skills.

~ Karla McLaren, on How She Really Does It

“Develop an emotional vocabulary.”

~ Karla McLaren, on How She Really Does It

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Torie Henderson is a well-known speaker, teacher and coach, helping parents stay sane in the land of crazy .  She uses her 20 years experience in family life education and human development to help caring, over-worked parents live their best lives so their kids will, too.

Torie is a sought after speaker where she helps parents talk to kids about sex.  Torie has developed TimeforTheTalk, an online, at home, sex education class for parents and kids to take together.

Torie's goal is to help open up the lines of communication between parents and kids about sex instead of youtube being your child’s teacher.

“Katie Perry is more than willing to talk about sex.

~ Torie Henderson, on How She Really Does It

“Your kids are getting a sex education.  It just may not be the one you’d want them to have.

~ Torie Henderson, on How She Really Does It

Time for The Talk (online course + resource)

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Unconventional Careers!  Last time I interviewed Julie Stuart she talked about leaving her job in politics and starting her business as a graphic facilitator.  Julie is a wildly intuitive graphic facilitator and visual strategist with a knack for seeing the bigger picture.

Julie has been recognized in the Harvard Business Review for her graphic facilitation work, she's visually facilitated high-stakes meetings for such clients as Accenture, GE, Eli Lilly, Victoria's Secret, the Center for Disease Control (CDC), Duke University, Skype and the United Way. 

Julie adores playing with possibilities, bringing new ideas into the light to reveal the unexpected, and exploring world-changing ideas. 

It's time to check back in with Julie about her unconventional career.

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Beth McMullen is a fiction author.  Her book Happily Ever After is like nothing I have ever read.  It is fun read to escape from your daily real life.  Which is a goal Beth had for her readers.

Last time Beth was here we discussed the mindset of a fiction author and her book Spy Mom.  In this interview she discusses life as a writer and why wrote her latest book under the pen name – Elizabeth Maxwell.

“You are not going to be perfect + who cares!”

~ Beth McMullen,

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What do you get when you combine these traits ~ Business awesomizer, suck exorist,  sonic alchemist, wold's most skeptic shaman + 20 years of drumming ~ Fabeku.

Fabeku has combined his superpower along with his skill set to create a business that matches who he is with what he knows.  He has his own language.  You will most likely here words like super power, bigness, smallness and boom during today’s interview.  His own super power is “unapologetic freedom and deep soul flow.”  And this is how Fabeku has built a very successful business from the inside out while helping others do the same.

Fabeku is here to talk about building a thriving business from the inside that matters.

 “Fear is a frequency that obscures, not clarifies.”

~ Fabeku, on How She Really Does It

“Love never guarantees certainty. And, yet, even though certainty’s not guaranteed, love is the safest place we can possibly be.”

~ Fabeku

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