Many single women I talk with tell me there are only two reasons why they can’t get into a relationship: not finding the right man, or meeting a man but . . . he doesn’t want to commit. 

They think it happens to them when a man doesn’t have time for a relationship or changes his mind or disappears. 🤷🏻‍♀️

They think that when men don’t commit, string them along, or ghost them is just what happens in dating. 🤷🏻‍♀️

But being in a relationship is a choice. 

What . . .? 🤯

You choose it.

Because the way you THINK about it is optional.

You ARE in charge of that.

And you have MORE options than just thinking the same old thoughts and believing the same limiting beliefs that actually keep you single. 

Thinking the same old thoughts like, “Men don’t want to commit” or “He won’t want to be in a relationship” is guaranteed to get you the results that MATCH your thinking.

Our thoughts create our results. Always.

This is exactly what I share in this new podcast episode #77, “How Shift from Being Single to Being in a Relationship.”

In this week’s episode, you’re about to discover:

✨ What your thoughts about being single have to do with being in a relationship

✨ How to break free from a vicious cycle that keeps  women chronically single 

✨ The simplest and fastest way to get into an easy, lasting and stable relationship

✨ Powerful questions to ask yourself that will lead you to your dream relationship

✨ How to make getting into a relationship inevitable for you

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

We have so much power to create what we really want. We are absolutely limitless in our ability to create an amazing relationship.

When you really connect to who you are and start showing up authentically, you tap into an unlimited source of your power and energy within yourself, which makes it much easier to create the relationship you want. 

The reason why it's so important is that if you’re single and not dating right now, if you think thoughts like: “I am not meeting anyone,” “I don't see any point in online dating,” “It's a waste of time,” “I don't know where to meet men” . . . when you have all these thoughts that are limited, negative, fear-based thoughts, chances are they make you feel very discouraged or unmotivated to take action. When you feel that way, chances are you're going to continue to avoid dating and staying in the same place. 

When you study and apply personality typing, you’re going to avoid choosing the type of partner who will expect you to give him something that you lack, because coming from a place of lack makes it harder. It puts a lot of tension and stress on a relationship where two people are incompatible, which makes these relationships really challenging. 

It starts with you focusing where you put your attention, because you are where your attention is. 

—Polina

P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!