Would you like to get a glimpse of what’s happening inside Love by Design?
And would you like to learn how some of our members get into a dual relationship—an easy, stable and lasting relationship—as quickly as 30 days after joining?
Besides learning how to use personality typing and manage their minds, our members follow my unique and highly effective Dual Relationship Pyramid framework.
Because it’s so powerful and valuable, I dedicated it to a new episode: #76 The Dual Relationship Pyramid
In this week’s episode, you’re about to discover:
✨ What the Dual Relationship Pyramid is and why it works
✨ The three simple steps to going from single to being in a dual relationship
✨ The biggest mistakes women make at every level of the pyramid
✨ How to position yourself as a Chooser and why it matters
✨ My suggested timeline for getting into a committed relationship and getting married
✨ The real reason men commit, propose and get married
Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode:
"One of the biggest mistakes women make is that they are not positioning themselves as a Chooser.They don't have options, don't have men to choose from, or they choose men who don't choose them."
"You set the standard. For example, if you communicate with a man and he stops communicating with you, instead of wondering, “Well, why doesn't he respond?” or “What should I tell him?” or “Did I do something wrong?” you simply and completely move on, because you follow one simple rule that you set, which is you don't choose men who don't choose you."
"Quality communication is a mutual two-way communication. Anything that is one way is not."
"This is where your personality typing skills become so valuable, because you know exactly how to recognize your dual partner and you can absolutely do it online, just by looking at his profile and exchanging a few messages. You don't even have to go on a date. You can definitely know a man's type and whether or not you’re compatible on a first date over a cup of coffee."
"You don't owe anything to anyone unless you're really committed to each other. And then you have an agreement about what you're committing to and what it means. But until that happens, the whole point of dating is that you are choosing."
"Look at how men will show up without forcing anything. You just hold space. You just present an opportunity."
"I have a philosophy for when you really want to make a decision if you want to be together. And when I say “be together,” I mean that you commit to each other for a long term—even for the rest of your life. Within six months, you already know if you want to be with this person for the rest of your life or not. It's absolutely doable and easy to do with personality typing."
"When you get into a relationship with a non-dual partner, then six months or a year later, it all falls apart because you realize you're so different and something is missing. It always happens in a non-dual relationship: challenges and issues will come up. Then, you have a choice: you're either going to try to work hard on your relationship and compensate for that or you're just going to go your separate ways."
"In a dual relationship, you don't have any unresolvable, recurring issues at all, because there isn't anything missing. It's very easy to be together."
—Polina
P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!
