Love by Design

By Polina Solda

Love by Design is the only podcast that teaches women the exact algorithm on how to find your ideal type of man with a proven personality typing system. Dating and Relationship Coach and Eniostyle Exp... more

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May 29, 2022You won’t have love without being…
What do you think is the most important quality when it comes to creating a loving relationship that lasts?
I believe it’s the quality of being honest.
First, be honest with yourself and then with everyone else.
Being honest about your true feelings, your deepest desires and your biggest fears.
Oftentimes, we tend to deny ourselves that honesty because we might be terrified to look within ourselves.
We might be afraid or resistant to do it out of fear, doubt or insecurity about facing our own feelings and emotions.
The reality is that everything we ever wanted is available to us outside of our own self-imposed limitations.
Being honest with yourself and making different decisions about how you choose to show up is the first step towards your dreams.
Your personal power lies in your willingness to experience any emotion.
When you realize that and decide that you can handle any feeling, you open your heart to love—and inevitably attract it into your life.
That’s so transformational and powerful that I decided to dedicate this new episode of my “Love by Design” podcast to it.
In this episode, “You won’t have love without being . . .” you’ll discover:
The real reasons why we are NOT being honest with ourselves and men
The cost of not being honest with yourself and your man
The best and only way to show up in a healthy and loving relationship
The secret to your ultimate personal freedom and ability to create love
Why true love never hurts—and what actually does
Personal, raw and vulnerable examples of how I practice being honest with myself and others in my own life

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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
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CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
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42min
May 23, 2022The Big Power of Tiny Connections
It's such a joy and honor to present to you a very special guest expert on today's episode. Her name is Jen Nash—a super-connector and masterful storyteller.
She also recently wrote an Amazon Best Seller, The Big Power of Tiny Connections, which I highly recommend. We're going to talk about this book and what difference it can make in your life.
I know so many of us coming out of these very challenging times still find it pretty challenging to connect and meet new people.
Listen to my latest podcast episode and start motivating yourself to show up and start connecting.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
The easiest and fastest way to meet new people
The “ninja moves” for starting and building connections
What gets in the way of making these connections

The stress of leading your love life and how to overcome it

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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
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CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
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… and FB for more positivity!
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TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
42min
May 15, 2022Can There Be TOO MUCH of a Mother’s Love?
Happy Mother's Day, if you are a mother, and of course Happy Mother's Day to your mom.
I want to present an interesting and different perspective—a topic that very few people might talk about—if anyone at all. It’s about too much of a mother's love.
There is a specific system of values that exists. It's an unspoken system of values, that when you follow that system, it creates harmony—which then creates a natural balance in your life.
But when that system of values is broken, there will be challenges. There will be problems.
Listen to my latest podcast episode to know how important it is to love yourself and what might be the consequences if the system of values is not followed.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
The unspoken system of values that creates balance in your life
What happens when you try to “shake” and change this natural system
The real reason why so many families fall apart after they have a child
The one word a mother says that reveals the level of closeness with her husband
What happens when a mother puts her love towards her child(ren) ahead of her love towards herself and towards her man
My personal examples of being on the receiving end of too much of a mother's love
How too much of a mother's love can damage you and your most important relationships

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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
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CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
56min
May 06, 2022 The Impact of Friendship on Your Love Life
How do you define friendship?
At the very beginning of all friendships, it’s like dating, you don’t know the person that well yet, so you’re not landing softly every time. You show up and you consistently make that effort.
And now, we’ve landed in this, like, such comfortable – I feel like I can call you any time for any reason and tell you anything. But I do think that’s earned.
The beauty of dating, is instead of dating all the time to find a mate, just date to learn you; what’s acceptable, what’s not, what feels good, why are you triggered? Because when we’re triggered about certain things, it’s something we need to address.
I think we’ve been conditioned to – we’re looking for the guy. But it’s like, can you just enjoy yourself? Can you just have experiences with other humans that feel good and that teach you about yourself?
And then you can kind of formulate, you know, “This is the type of relationship that I would really like. This is what feels good for me.”

Listen to my latest podcast episode to understand how your ability to make friends determines your ability to get dates and get into a relationship.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ What dating and friendships really have in common
✨ How I make new friends everywhere I go (and you can too!)
✨ The most important questions to ask yourself
✨ What can you start doing today to expand your social circle
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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
=====================================================
CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
49min
May 02, 2022The Worst Thing You can Do in Dating
If you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you’ve been told things like this:
Be more____
Be less____
Don’t say______
Say_____
Don’t ever do______
You must do______

And it goes on and on.
Most single women think you have to be, do and say certain things to get a man but that might be the worst dating advice that blocks you from ever finding true love.
And I get it.
Everyone says that you have to be, do and say certain things in order to attract a man. So it’s easy to believe.
But if that were true then every single woman who did it would have attracted a man of her dreams.
And we all know that’s not the case.
In fact, if you keep holding this belief you could actually find yourself saying and doing all the “right” things and still being single a year, five or even 10 years from now.
So how can you actually attract your ideal life partner?
Listen to my latest podcast episode to have a clear, customized roadmap that allows you to recognize, attract and get into a relationship with your ideal partner so that you can be 100% yourself.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
Why your “ideal man list” is keeping you single
The #1 reason why you can’t find your dream man
The real cost of searching for Mr. Perfect
Real case studies of different personality types
The proven framework for finding an ideal TYPE of man for you

=====================================================
FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
=====================================================
CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
38min
April 29, 2022 The worst thing you can do in dating
If you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you’ve been told things like this:
Be more____
Be less____
Don’t say______
Say_____
Don’t ever do______
You must do______
And it goes on and on.
Most single women think you have to be, do and say certain things to get a man but that might be the worst dating advice that blocks you from ever finding true love.
And I get it.
Everyone says that you have to be, do and say certain things in order to attract a man. So it’s easy to believe.
But if that were true then every single woman who did it would have attracted a man of her dreams.
And we all know that’s not the case.
In fact, if you keep holding this belief you could actually find yourself saying and doing all the “right” things and still being single a year, five or even 10 years from now.
So how can you actually attract your ideal life partner?
Listen to my latest podcast episode to have a clear, customized roadmap that allows you to recognize, attract and get into a relationship with your ideal partner so that you can be 100% yourself.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ Why your “ideal man list” is keeping you single
✨ The #1 reason why you can’t find your dream man
✨ The real cost of searching for Mr. Perfect
✨ Real case studies of different personality types
✨ The proven framework for finding an ideal TYPE of man for you
...more
38min
April 22, 2022The biggest dating myth that sets you up for a failure in love
Many single women think that Mr. Perfect exists - you just have to find him.
But that might be the worst dating advice that can actually keep you in a desperate pattern of searching for “Mr. Perfect” for years (even a lifetime!) without ever finding him.
And I get it.
Everyone says that Mr. Perfect exists. So it’s easy to believe.
But if that were true then every woman who was searching for Mr. Perfect would have found him.
And we all know that’s not the case.
In fact, if you keep holding onto this belief you could actually find yourself a year, or 5 or even 10 years from now still single and searching for Mr. Perfect.
So how can you actually find your ideal life partner?
Listen to my latest podcast episode and learn the proven, psychology-backed personality-typing system that is the most effective, surest and simplest way to find the most compatible man for you quickly and easily.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
Why your “ideal man list” is keeping you single
The #1 reason why you can’t find your dream man
The real cost of searching for Mr. Perfect
Real case studies of different personality types
The proven framework for finding an ideal TYPE of man for you

So let me ask you.
Do you really want to keep searching for Mr. Perfect who doesn’t exist…
Or…
Do you want to actually attract your ideal life partner using Eniostyle who’s going to be perfectly compatible with you?
If you’re ready to attract your man without wasting your time, energy and resources on dating a bunch of random men, click here to be the first one notified when I host a free live training video series, “ATTRACT YOUR MAN,” will show you how guaranteed.
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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
=====================================================
CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
49min
April 15, 2022 Why there are no “right’ or “wrong men
Have you ever thought about men as “right” or “wrong”?
Most single women think that all men can be categorized as right or wrong but that might be the worst dating myth that can actually keep you single.
And I get it.
Everyone says that there are “right” vs “wrong” men. So it’s easy to believe.
But if that were true then every woman who searched for the right man would have found him.
And we all know that’s not the case.
In fact, if you keep thinking about men as right or wrong, you could actually find yourself a year, or 5, or even 10 years from now searching for the right man and either finding the “right” men who later turn out to be “wrong” or not finding anyone at all.
(If you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you can relate, am I right?)
So how do you know how you can actually recognize, attract and choose your ideal life partner?
Listen to my latest podcast episode to get a clear, customized roadmap that allows you to recognize, attract and get into a relationship with your ideal partner who might be wrong for someone else but who’s going to be absolutely right for you.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ The worst thing you can think about men in dating
✨ The real reasons why you can’t attract “the right man”
✨ The cost of thinking about men as “right” vs “wrong”
✨ Case studies of how this actually works in reality
✨ The formula to go from single to in a lasting relationship
✨ How you can get started attracting your ideal type right now
Do you really want to keep searching for love relying on a superficial and simplified generalization that keeps you searching and staying single…
Or…
Do you want to attract your ideal life partner using Eniostyle that allows you to finally recognize him quickly and easily?
If you’re ready to attract your Have you ever man without wasting your time, energy and resources on dating a bunch of random men, click here to be the first one notified when I host a free live training video series, “ATTRACT YOUR MAN,” will show you how guaranteed.
=====================================================
FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
=====================================================
CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
51min
April 08, 2022 The worst dating advice that keeps you struggling in dating
Do you want to know about the worst dating advice that keeps you single and struggling in dating?
The biggest problem most single women have in dating is thinking that the same generic strategies for how to attract, communicate and date with men will work with ANY man.
And I get it.
It’s not your fault if you’ve been led to believe that.
Everyone tells you that if you use these “3 secret steps” or send those “5 magic texts” then ANY man will fall in love with you, so it’s easy to fall into that myth.
But let me ask you.
Has every woman who has been using this generic dating advice found her ideal man?
Of course, not!
And you could actually continue wasting your time, energy and resources following that one-size-fits-all approach and stay single if you rely on generic dating advice.
So how do you attract your ideal man and get him to naturally fall in love with you?
Listen to my latest podcast episode and discover how you can stop using outdated, ineffective, generic dating advice that rarely works and causes you to doubt yourself when it fails.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ The cold hard truth about why generic dating advice rarely works
✨ Real examples of how differently men respond when you play hard-to-get, provoke jealousy, are direct, or are vulnerable
✨ The power of using Eniostyle in communicating, dating and handling challenging situations with men
✨ How you can get started using highly personalized effective dating strategies with men based on their type
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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
=====================================================
CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
46min
April 02, 2022 Why searching for someone just like you keeps you single
Have you ever wished to find someone who is just like you?
Most single women think that you have to search for someone who is just like you, but that might be the worst dating advice that can actually hurt you.
And I get it.
Everyone says that like attracts like . . . so it’s easy to believe.
But if that were true then every woman who found a man just like her would live happily ever after.
And we all know that’s not the case.
In fact, if you keep holding to this belief you could actually find yourself a year, or five or even ten years from now in a relationship where something is missing, one or both partners are trying to change the other and it takes a lot of effort to make it work.
Chances are, you’ve had this type of relationship experience in the past, am I right?
So how can you actually choose your ideal life partner and have an easy, fulfilling and lasting relationship?
Listen to my latest podcast episode and discover how you can finally attract someone special and create a relationship where nothing is missing.
In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:
✨ The worst dating advice that can actually hurt you
✨ The real reason why something is missing in relationships
✨ Real life stories of couples of the same type
✨ The actual cost of being with someone who’s just like you
✨The two simple steps to attracting your ideal type of man
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FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL!
Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”
Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast
Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System
To Discover Your Type Right Now!
Take the free #personalityquiz ►
https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98
=====================================================
CONNECT with Polina Solda on OTHER SOCIAL PLATFORMS!:
Follow Polina’s INSTA to Get All Educational Reels and Daily STORIES!!
Instagram ►
https://instagram.com/polina.solda?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
… and FB for more positivity!
Facebook Page ►
https://www.facebook.com/lovebydesignworks
TIKTOK ► https://www.tiktok.com/@polina.solda
...more
44min

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How many episodes does Love by Design have?

The podcast currently has 92 episodes available.

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