Love by Design

If You Don’t Know Exactly What Messages Attract the Right Type of Men,

How Will YOUR MAN Ever Find YOU?

You probably already know that how you message men is what determines whether a guy you met at a friend’s party or on a dating app will respond, ask you out on a date and commit to you.

If you’re like most professional busy women, chances are you want to spend less time messaging men, stop messaging the wrong type of guys and start feeling like a CONFIDENT, desirable, high-value woman who attracts high-quality men. You want to become a CHOOSER who gets to choose the RIGHT man for you quickly and easily.

But the biggest ISSUE I see with struggling in dating women that keeps them single is that hard-to-answer question:

“What should I message him?” 

And, if you’re reading this now, I can assume that you’re asking that same question, right?

“What do I say?” - why not just say whatever?! “What if I say something wrong?” “What if I don’t recognize and overlook my soulmate?” “What if I say something that will turn him off?!”

Mastering messaging men is exactly what you need so that you ATTRACT YOUR MAN.

Being a smart and successful woman, you’ll probably agree that in our world of modern technology and instant communication, mastering messaging men is what will make you stand out from others, give you much BETTER options in dating and lead to the next step - a first date… a commitment… a life together.

On the contrary, not mastering messaging won’t just keep you in the same place of being busy dating and staying single. It’ll make you feel increasingly more frustrated, overwhelmed and exhausted!

That’s exactly why I created this new episode: How to message men so they respond

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

✨ Why mastering messaging men is key to attracting your man

✨ The concept of “robot-like talk” 🤖 means with real life examples 

✨ The #1 question to ask yourself before you message him

✨ The most important criteria of a message that men respond to

✨ Examples of different messaging styles based on men’s personality type

✨ The next step you can take right now to master messaging men

If you’ve been busy messaging men doing what “they” told you to do but you’re still single, it’s not because you need to do MORE. If that were the case, then every woman who sent a bunch of texts would already find her soulmate.

But there’s the simple, fast and proven formula that you can learn in just two hours and see an instant positive shift in your communication and the quality of men you attract.

So, if you want to attract your man without wasting your time, energy and resources on messaging the wrong guys, join us now.

This live virtual “Attract Your Man Messaging Workshop” gives you the exact formula for knowing who to message, how to message him, and what your first messages will be . . . OR YOUR MONEY BACK!

Click here to register now! 

You may know that I recently got on Tinder so that I could create real-life case studies for members of my Love by Design program.

Going through thousands of online dating profiles of both men and women, what I know for sure is this:

The quality of your profile determines the quality of men you attract.

If your profile is done right, it can sort and filter men for you by attracting high-quality dual types of men and by turning off all the other types. 

It can help your soulmate recognize you on a subconscious level, swipe right and instantly send you a message that will lead to a date, to a commitment and even to a life together.

If you’re dating online, everything starts with your profile. And if it doesn’t represent you in an authentic, inherently attractive, high energy vibration way, chances are you aren’t going to attract the kind of men you want.

That’s why I created this new episode, “The do's & don'ts of your online dating profile.” 

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

✨ The secret ingredient that makes men swipe left or right

✨ How alignment with your type attracts your ideal dual type of men

✨ The biggest mistakes women make in their profile photos

✨ The worst things you can say in your profile that turn off quality men

✨ Real life examples of the biggest don'ts in online profiles

Here are few gold nuggets from this episode: 

“Before we get to messaging, having the right online dating profile is everything, because in that split second, a person could turn out to be your soulmate—your perfect dual partner, compatible and complementary to you. Because what you say and do with your profile might completely turn them off and make the conclusion that you're not the right person.”

“When you are being yourself—fully expressed in your type—there's really no competition. But if you don't know your type and you're just getting started, well, you'll see what the competition is like out there.”

“What starts happening when you align fully and focus on your strengths and on what makes you authentically you, you become visible, more attractive and even more desirable.”

“Be authentic. Because no one else can do you and be you. And that is exactly how your soulmate, your ideal partner, is going to recognize you.”

“A woman can be physically attractive, but she could be empty energetically.”

“You are where your attention is and so it is no surprise that you’re going to experience more negativity when you put your attention to the wrong things.”

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In what instances do you actually give your ex a chance? 🤷‍♀️

One of the reasons why I want to discuss this topic is because a lot of newer members in my flagship program, Love by Design, and even some members who've been in the program for a couple of months or longer have experienced a very interesting phenomenon: their ex or exes have come back. They reappear and contact them out of nowhere. It happens as a pattern and it happens as a trend. 

There is a specific reason why this happens, which is exactly why I created this episode # 63 “Why do Exes Come Back?”—for you to know exactly what the signs are and how you can handle it.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

✨ Real life examples of what my students did that made their exes come back

✨ The difference between women who take action and commit vs. women who just stay on the sidelines and do not take action

✨ The transformations you will get the moment you elevate your frequency

✨ What you’ll learn inside my flagship program, Love by Design

✨ Why exes come back, what your options are, and the cost for each

✨ How understanding personality types can prevent you from overlooking your dual partner type

✨ The key to instantly knowing your dual partner type, learning how and where to meet them, and how to recognize and start dating them

Here are few gold nuggets from this episode: 

“When you align with your authentic personality type that you were born into with all of your values, and you start leading with your strengths, you stand out. You become one of a kind. You become one in a million. And for the man—especially for your dual partner type—you become absolutely irresistible and magnetic.”

“The truth is that you have to let go to let in, and you cannot create anything new if you’re still holding on to your past. It's not going to work.”

“There’s something magical about a woman who makes decisions and says ‘I'm in’ and makes the decision to invest on multiple levels, because it's not just about the money for the program—it's about her level of commitment, her time, her energy, her attention. And that's exactly what women do. That's exactly what separates women who just stay on the sidelines not taking action, or are just passively watching and consuming free information.”

“It's so hard to do it on your own. When you don't know this stuff and you don't have a supportive environment, all you have are waves of emotions and all of his memories, saying ‘what if it works out this time?’ And you're all on your own. You're recreating that cycle when there's nobody there to catch you. And you're making the same mistake over and over again.“

I hope this episode will help you discover what's possible for you. Create a  space for something new to come in. That means you’ve got to let go and release your past.

Your ex is your ex for a reason. Believe that there is something better and something more amazing for you. 

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

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Hi [First Name],

Wouldn’t it be nice if men behaved exactly the way we wanted them to? 😉

After 12 years of working with women, I know for sure that most of us have these unwritten, unspoken instruction manuals for how men should communicate and act. 

Unfortunately, most of us don’t question and don’t communicate to others what rules, standards and guidelines are in those manuals. 

For some of us, these invisible manuals make it practically impossible to get into and then keep a loving and healthy relationship.

That’s exactly why I created this episode # 62 Do you have a manual for men and relationships? —so you can become aware of some hidden blocks that you may not even realize you had.

Click here to listen to this podcast now.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

• What manuals for men and relationships can look like
• The kinds of manuals that actually keep you single and sabotage your relationships
• Key questions to ask yourself to discover what kind of manual you currently have
• The way of thinking that guarantees that you’re going to feel upset, angry, frustrated and disappointed with men
• How understanding personality types can empower you to find your man and create a happy relationship
• Personality-based manuals for men and examples of how to make it simple and easy to have a lasting and stable relationship
• Real life examples of online dating communication based on personality-based manuals for men

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

To Discover Your Type Right Now!

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This topic was inspired by so many examples of women who’d define their relationship status as “It’s complicated.”

The reality is that you might be thinking you are in a relationship, but you're actually not. Because It's just an illusion of a relationship. 

If you can relate, make sure to listen to this podcast now so that you can shift and break free from an ambiguous place and actually create the true relationship you want.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

✨ What being in an illusion of a relationship means

✨ The difference between being in a relationship vs. in the illusion of a relationship

✨ The biggest red flags that indicate it’s the illusion of a relationship

✨ What women who are in the illusion of a relationship say to themselves and others

✨ The real reasons why women stay in the illusion of a relationship

✨ The hidden cost and impact of staying in the illusion of a relationship

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

To Discover Your Type Right Now!

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Did you know that 7 out of 10 couples break up in their 1st year of being in a committed relationship? And, if they pass that 1-year mark and get married, they eventually split up?

One of the reasons is because of how you approach your relationship.

I believe that there are 2 kinds of relationships. First is the relationship by design and the most common one which is the relationship by default.

What does it mean?

Listen to my latest podcast episode to know the difference between relationship by design vs. relationship by default and why it is important in choosing your life partner.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

• What relationships by design vs. by default are
• The secret ingredients of relationships by design
• The most important questions to ask yourself 
• Key distinctions of relationships by design vs. by default
• Real life examples of how these relationships work

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

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I am very excited to talk with you about creating breakthroughs in your love life—especially now that things seem to be getting back to normal.

It feels like things have changed, and everything is bubbly. Like, I feel so much energy!

And this is the time to create breakthroughs in your life, make a change.

I believe that a breakthrough is something you create. It's up to you to decide when you want to experience a breakthrough in a particular area of your life.

And that decision will shape your destiny and will open doors for opportunities.

Listen to my latest podcast episode to know how you can turn your breakdowns into opportunities and create that breakthrough you are aiming for—especially in your love life.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

• What it means to create a breakthrough in love
• The sneaky ways we get in our own way without even realizing it
• How to deal with perfectionism and waiting for the right time and circumstances
• A personal story of how I turned my biggest breakdown into my biggest breakthrough
• How you can create a breakthrough in your love life right now

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Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

To Discover Your Type Right Now!

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Happy Father's Day! This is a holiday that I haven’t celebrated for most of my life. Now,  however, it’s one of my favorite holidays.

In this new episode of the Love by Design podcast, “Your Relationship with Your Father and Your Love Life,” I am sharing:

• My personal story of my father leaving when I was born 
• The impact that your relationship with your father has on your love life
• Invisible blocks that hold you back from finding your man
• What forgiving your father has to do with the quality of men you attract
• How your ability to let go of your past affects your ability to have your dream relationship

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Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

To Discover Your Type Right Now!

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What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to risk everything—rejection, failing, getting hurt?

What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to do anything for it?

One woman told me, “I’m not willing to invest money in this thing because I’m not willing to risk my savings.” 

I said, “That’s how I know you don’t believe. Because if you believed 100% that you’d win, you would risk your savings.”

Most women are not willing to do that.

But when you’re in a position to win and create the result you want—to be in a relationship with the right man—you show that you believe by the actions you take.

You know that you believe in something when you’re willing to take risks for it. And sometimes, that means putting your money where your mouth is.

That means taking risks in how you put yourself out there. Sometimes, that means investing your evenings and your weekends doing dating-related activities because you know that the payoff will be there.

Listen to my latest podcast episode to know where you are now in your journey to attracting your ideal type of man, to understand the things you need to do to turn that vision into reality, and to know where you will be when all your dreams of finding your man have come true.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

• The #1 difference between someone who believes in love vs. someone who doesn’t
• The 3-step strategy to go from where you are to where you want to be in love
• The most important questions to ask yourself to uncover what really holds you back
• The next step to take right now to finally attract your ideal type of man

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Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”

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Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

To Discover Your Type Right Now!

Take the free #personalityquiz ► 

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I will let you in on an enthralling and unusual topic inspired by what I would call “The Hero's Journey.”

If you think about any great story, usually nothing happens until there is this moment . . .  there is this big “WHY?”

Time flies by so fast. Undertaking the same things like dating a man who does not want to commit, and being so overwhelmed, frustrated, and confused should not be an option. You should not wait for something to happen and hope it will happen accordingly.

Make a decision. As Tony Robbins said, "Your destiny is shaped." Not by anyone but yourself, who is the hero.

But here's an interesting thing: a hero will not be a hero if no one mentors, guides or inspires them.

Listen to my latest podcast episode to know how essential it is to have a guide to succeed in your love life, what the costs are of having a guide or having no guide at all, and what to look for in a guide who will get you to where you want to be.

In this week’s episode, you’ll learn:

• What storytelling and your love journey have in common
• Why having a guide is essential to your success in love
• The cost of having a wrong guide or no guide at all
• The REAL villain that gets in your way and keeps you single
• What exactly to look for in a guide who will get you where you want to be

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  FREE GIFTS FOR YOU ALL! 

Discover the most effective, easiest and fastest way for busy professional women to find love without wasting time and energy on dating the wrong guys. Join my 3-part live FREE training “Attract Your Man.”

Click here to register: https://www.polinasolda.com/attractyourmanregpagepodcast

Personality Typing is the Most Effective, Easiest & Fastest Way to Attract the Right Man! Tap Into The Proven System

To Discover Your Type Right Now!

Take the free #personalityquiz ► 

https://take.quiz-maker.com/QSQ5DZQ98

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