Violence does not become ethical because the culture lacks language for it. It becomes invisible. And invisibility does not neutralize harm—it relocates it into the nervous system of the person absorbing the blows. Female-initiated physical violence against men persists not because it is rare, but because it disrupts the moral grammar we have been trained to speak. When harm violates expectation rather than boundary, perception collapses. The body registers threat, but the mind receives no confirmation.