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How to Ask for Help and Actually Get What You Need


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Following on from last week’s episode we dig deeper into how to ask for help in a way that is more likely to actually get you the support or guidance you are looking for. Deborah shares supportive guidelines and a powerful shift in approach that will change how you look at asking for help.

She shares that it is worth being bold when it comes to asking for what you need and reminds us that the right ask, at the right time, with someone willing and able to help you, could very well be life-changing, so it’s a muscle worth learning to flex more often.

We also dive into practical steps that help you know how to most-effectively communicate your request for help.

In part two of today’s Hot Take episode, Jonathan & Deborah discuss:

  • The ‘Big Ask’ that changed Deborah’s career trajectory
  • Why you need to be super specific when you ask
  • The importance of of modelling
  • A powerful mind-shift when approaching asking for help
  • And why we should be bold and try a ‘life-changing ask’

  • SPARKED HOT TAKE WITH: Deborah Owens | Website

    After a long career in leadership in some of the biggest companies in the world, Deborah founded her own consulting firm, Corporate Alley Cat, where she advises and coaches People of Color in all aspects of career visioning and development. She has this incredible ability to see what’s happening under the surface in any given situation, and ask questions that get to the heart of the matter and reveal possibilities that feel both empowering and expansive.

    AND HOSTED BY: Jonathan Fields

    Jonathan is a dad, husband, award-winning author, multi-time founder, executive producer and host of the Good Life Project podcast, and co-host of SPARKED, too! He’s also the creator of an unusual tool that’s helped more than 650,000 people discover what kind of work makes them come alive - the Sparketype® Assessment, and author of the bestselling book, SPARKED.

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