We all want to be honest about what turns us on — but saying it out loud? That can feel tricky.

In this episode of Do You Feel That?, we explore how to communicate your desires in ways that actually build connection instead of shutting it down. From side-by-side conversations (as Dr. Charlie Glickman recommends) to asking better questions inspired by the Libido Fairy, we share how small shifts in language can completely change the energy between you and your partner.

We also open up about real moments in our relationship — like the first time Scott brought up trying sex toys (yes, while hanging Christmas ornaments) — and what made those conversations feel playful, not pressured.

If you’ve ever wanted to ask for something new, deeper, or different without killing the vibe, this one’s for you.