3 points to help you attract your perfect partner and as usual at the end of the video we will be tapping to attract your perfect partner.

1. How do you act to attract a prospective partner?

 I hear people asking - do I pretend I'm not interested? do I treat them super nice but then they'll take advantage of me?

There is a lot of anxiety in seeking out a partner working out how to act - it becomes like a hunt. Remember - these are people, not objects - they have thoughts and feelings like you do and are equally as concerned as you are about finding a a partner.

It's so cliche but be yourself - if you are not yourself you will be exhausted in your relationship from having to keep pretending to be someone else

Your next question should be how do I "be myself" when I don't know who I am - great question we can address in another video but for now - do whatever comes naturally to you: join community groups that bring you joy - for example, find an art class or join a basketball team or a trekking group; Doing things that are good for your wellbeing like art, music, exercise and nature, will help you to feel better about yourself and open you up to meeting more like minded people. It might take courage to put yourself out there but it will be worth hit.

Your “hunt” for a partner needs to become a journey of allowing in your ideal partner. The Universe knows you and knows all your wants and deepest desires. Trust in your own abilities to take the best steps towards finding someone and relax into it.

2. How do you look

While it's fun to feel gorgeous and dolled up don't be too concerned about it. You want to attract someone who finds you beautiful just the way you are. don't let movies and tv define what you consider beautiful because you might attract someone superficial. And I have a video I created to help you feel comfortable in your own skin. What you really want is someone who gets you emotionally and intellectually. If you were using your sex appeal to show you are sexually compatible - don't worry because if you develop a relationship where you both feel safe in the bedroom then you'll easily create sexy time play too

3What attitude do I need

If you don't fix up your self-worth then you might attract someone who really doesn't work for you - maybe they love hunting and you're an animal activist or maybe they're married or maybe they are clingy -

Online dating apps causing anxiety there’s a lot of self-judgement and judgement. 

You’re letting the algorithm determine how you feel about yourself. Know what type of relationship you want and use the appropriate app for example don’t use tinder to find a long term relationship. 

Greater self-love and self-compassion and self-acceptance