How to be a winner on the first date

Umbert’s friend Alexandre looks for a fiancée and asks for advice on How to be a winner on the first date if he meets a pretty girl, and asks her for a date. 

Umbert is a man to whom his friends like to confess. Politeness and friendship have a rule: never tell another person the confidences made by a friend.

Today he meets Alexandre at the Café de Flore in Paris.

Umbert explains that pretty girls are difficult to seduce, and they pay attention to the etiquette and good manners, so it is important to follow his advice.

After meeting the “right person,” here is the second crucial moment: the date.

It is also the second difficult part because everything will have to be in fineness and elegance.

Benefits of this coaching :

* Best methodology to become irresistible.

* An innovative technique to unleash your charisma.

* Learn the new etiquette & manners.

* A better lifestyle.

“You’ll never have a second chance to make a good impression,” David Swanson.

1) General rules for a date

Simplicity is key. Be yourself; lying is a waste of time; she will discover who you are anyway.

The smile is the number one asset of seduction. Be friendly and charming.

The one who makes a woman laugh will be ahead of the one who floods her with many compliments.

Have physical, moral and intellectual elegance.

Highlight your qualities. For example, your success in an industry or a sport. There may be other contenders, so put all the chances on your side. Whether you are beautiful, intelligent, rich or the opposite, girls like success. Do not show off with your money, car or house. Make yourself appreciate for yourself; it’s essential for the future.

Before the appointment, you can think of a few topics. A man who does not know what to say will have no chance to please.

Avoid at all costs the vulgarity, the “heaviness” in the behavior, and don’t do too much, or say too much.

In all cases avoid personal problems, excessive development, and focus on the interest of the other.

If you are open, balanced, attentive, confident, cheerful! Then everything will be fine.

2) The date at the restaurant

* Arrive in advance. Never be late to the first appointment, it would be a huge and gross mistake. If it happens to contact her as soon as possible to let her know, she will appreciate it. Moreover don’t try the « sorry I’m so busy … », she wants you to be busy with her!  

* Personal items shouldn’t be on the table (sunglasses, phone, keys, etc.). This is a table for you and her, not yours.

* Turn off your phone!

* Get up when the woman arrives to greet her.

* If you’ve never met and are disappointed: do not show it, you will not see each other again.

* Find a sentence to welcome her, delicate, kind without doing too much. A compliment on her outfit and elegance will always be appreciated. A little shyness does not hurt or at least a low reserve.

* Never sit down first. The bench is always reserved for ladies. If there are only chairs, think of pulling the woman’s chair, unless the butler does it.

* When you sit down to the table, immediately put your towel on your legs, without waiting for the dish.

* Start the conversation and look at her eyes to talk.

* It is the man who places the order at the Maître d’Hotel and chooses the wines, after having asked the woman if his choice suits her. Do not look at the neighbors’ plate at another table to make your choice.

* The man serves the drink to the woman who accompanies him unless the butler does it.

* Before starting to taste the dishes, wait until she is served.

* If you have to leave the table for a few minutes,