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If you’ve been betrayed repeatedly, it’s not easy to trust again, especially when the betrayal came from someone you depended on. This episode is for the woman who feels lonely, cautious, and tired of being used. We talk about the Trust Ladder, how to spot safe people by patterns, and a lesson from 1 Kings 13 about misplaced trust.
Nuggets of wisdom in this episode
Trust is layers and patterns over time.
The 4 Cs that prove a person is trustworthy.
Loneliness makes you vulnerable to wrong counsel.
God’s Word is your safest guide.
Key scriptures: Matthew 10:16, Proverbs 4:23, Proverbs 27:12, Psalm 118:8, 1 Kings 13
References
Betrayal Trauma: The Impact of Being Betrayed
How to Stop Hustling for Love
Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area.
Picture on cover developed in Canva.
Support the show
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter
By Judith Kambia Obatusa (JKO)Send JKO a Text Message
If you’ve been betrayed repeatedly, it’s not easy to trust again, especially when the betrayal came from someone you depended on. This episode is for the woman who feels lonely, cautious, and tired of being used. We talk about the Trust Ladder, how to spot safe people by patterns, and a lesson from 1 Kings 13 about misplaced trust.
Nuggets of wisdom in this episode
Trust is layers and patterns over time.
The 4 Cs that prove a person is trustworthy.
Loneliness makes you vulnerable to wrong counsel.
God’s Word is your safest guide.
Key scriptures: Matthew 10:16, Proverbs 4:23, Proverbs 27:12, Psalm 118:8, 1 Kings 13
References
Betrayal Trauma: The Impact of Being Betrayed
How to Stop Hustling for Love
Safety Note: Please use these ideas in a way that feels right and safe for your situation. For personal support, reach out to someone you trust or a local service in your area.
Picture on cover developed in Canva.
Support the show
If Messy Can’t Stop Her blesses or inspires you, please consider supporting it at supportmessycantstopher.buzzsprout.com. Thank you for being part of this journey.
If you would love to share your story on the #MessyCantStopHer podcast, click here to let me know.
Thank you so much for listening.
Music Credit: https://indiefy.me/wanted-carter