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If you’ve been wrestling with disappointment, unmet expectations, or regret, OR you’ve been holding tightly to the life you thought you’d have, this episode is for you.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

Your worth isn’t tied to the life you imagined

Letting go is not weakness 

Letting go involves grief, and wrestling with fear and shame

Faith is believing that God is faithful even when life doesn’t match your dreams

Key scriptures: Ecclesiastes 3:11, Lamentations 3:22–23, Romans 4:20–21 Hebrews 11:1, 1 Peter 5:7 

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This episode shares six powerful lessons from the life and legacy of Charlie Kirk. Whether or not you agreed with him, his story offers insights that can inspire women in the trenches of life. If you believe you are open to learning, this episode is for you.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

1. Define your mission and focus on it
2. Don’t despise the little you have in your hand
3. Cultivate kindness in every situation
4. Live Your Faith Out Loud, every day, everywhere, and in every way
5. Always be hungry to learn, even from people you disagree with
6. Think generationally, lead with posterity in mind

Key Scriptures: Ephesians 5:16, John 12:32, Proverbs 19:20 

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For the woman in the “in-between”, still waiting for her turnaround, her answered prayer, her breakthrough. From Hannah’s waiting and the woman with the issue of blood, learn how faith, honesty, and community sustain us when we’re stuck in that long, slow wait.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

The In-Between from the pit to the promise is where your spiritual roots grow deeper

The power that propels lies in your self-talk

3 practical tips to get through the weary in-between

Key scriptures: 1 Samuel 1, Luke 8:43–48 

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For women in the trenches: Discover the power of prayer in the trenches of life from the Washington Post, science and scripture. 

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

Prayer may not always change your circumstances but it calms your body, anchors your worth, and reshapes your relationships

Science shows that prayer reduces stress, anxiety, and improves resilience often more effectively than secular meditation

Five-minute prayer strategies

Key scriptures: Luke 22:42, Philippians 4:6–7, 2 Corinthians 12:9 

References

What science says about the power of religion and prayer to heal – The Washington Post

A Prayer for Transforming Pain into Purpose: Giving Our Suffering to God as an Offering

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Do you find yourself always trying to earn love, safety, or belonging in relationships? Then, this episode is for you. Discover the signs of emotional hustle culture in relationships, its effects on mental and physical health, and how to heal and deal with it. 

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode 

Links between hustling for love and health issues like insomnia, anxiety, and weight gain 

The standard for real love 

Practical healing tools and practices 

Key scriptures: 1 Corinthians 13:4–7, Genesis 29:31–35 

References 

How to Talk to People Who Don’t Like You, episode from The Crappy Childhood Fairy 

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Have you ever heard or even believed that people like you should not be talking? That your challenges make you unworthy to add value to anyone’s life? Let’s uncover the truth from the stories of Rahab, Tamar and Annie Lobert, Hookers for Christ. 

God doesn’t wait for perfection before He uses us. He chooses you just the way you are. 

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode 

The surprising role of Rahab the harlot in God’s redemption story 

How Tamar’s bold and scandalous choices placed her in the lineage of Jesus 

A modern-day story of a woman whose past in sex work qualified her to minister hope and freedom to others 

Messy is actually a qualification 

References 

https://hookersforjesus.net/ 

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Have you ever felt spiritually stuck? Do you feel as if your prayers are dry and your heart is distant? Is your self talk shame and guilt filled? This episode is for you.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode 

What spiritual “stuckness” feels like

The difference between performance and presence in your faith walk

Encouragement and a prayer for women feeling numb, distant, or weary

Key scriptures: Isaiah 43:2, Jeremiah 29:13, Psalm 46:10, Romans 8:35-39 

References

Elevation Worship & Maverick City’s “Jireh” 

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Back after an unplanned break.

In the midst of loss and grief, faith can be hard and the fear of not being worthy can keep women from living out their purpose. This episode explores how to push through when overwhelm is pulling on you.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

Grief is strength, not weakness 

How fear drives our decisions and actions

What faith looks like in the middle of pain

A prayer for women grieving people, dreams, or seasons

Key scripture: Psalm 34:18

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 In this follow-up to “The High Cost of Being Judgmental” JKO unpacks the danger of forming conclusions about someone based on a single story. When we reduce people to one chapter of one story they shared from their lives, we sabotage connection, trust, and compassion. If you’re a woman walking through the pain of judgment, this episode is for you. 

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JKO gets honest about how hidden judgments are also shaping how we see ourselves, sabotaging our relationships, and sending energy that makes others feel unsafe around us, without us ever saying a word. If you're ready to stop letting judgment run your relationships and your spirit, this one is for you.

Nuggets of wisdom in this episode

Judgment is often a mirror of our fears, insecurities, or unhealed parts

Even when we’re polite, the energy of judgment can be felt 

Judging others harms our own wellbeing

Key Scriptures: Matthew 7:1, Luke 6:41–42, Romans 12:2, Proverbs 23:7

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