You identify as a high value person and have standards. But how do you communicate your standards without setting expectations and with grace? 

We talk to Chengi Tobun, an international best selling author, a relationship and love coach with a popular YouTube channel called Chengi’s World where her videos have garnered over 2.7MM views. Her approach with relationship advice combines life and performance coaching, theological training and personal experience to share both the female and male perspectives. Chengi says that when we state our standards, we are giving ourselves permission to lose the other person. Her insight and advice will truly empower you in your relationships in communicating your standards and mastering communication with your partner. In this episode, you will learn: 

3;05: What is a high value person? How does a high value person show up in this world?

4:47: What do high value men and women look for in their partner? 

8:05: How do you balance feminine and masculine energies in a relationship? 

9:39: What are the the specific functions of the masculine and feminine energies? 

11:13: Why do 50/50 relationship balance lead to decreased sexual chemistry? 

16:20: What are traits of low value behavior to look out for? 

21:46: How to communicate your standards as a high value person?

27:50: Can you set standards without having expectations? 

35:40: How are men and women's brain wired differently. 

38:00: What are ways to master communication with our partner? 

44:10: Chengi's one piece of advice to her younger self to live fully in the present and not worry in relationships? 

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