Awesome Marriage Podcast

How to Create a More Servant-Hearted Marriage | Ep. 667


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In this conversation, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the concept of cultivating a servant-hearted marriage, emphasizing the importance of serving one another selflessly. They explore how serving each other can create a loving and respectful environment, reflecting God's design for marriage. The discussion includes practical ways to serve, the impact of a servant-hearted marriage on family dynamics, and the barriers that can hinder this service. They also highlight the significance of self-examination and seeking help when facing challenges in marriage. 

 

Episode highlights include:

  • Cultivating a servant-hearted marriage requires daily choices to act in love.

  • Children benefit from witnessing a servant-hearted marriage.

  • A servant-hearted marriage reflects God's design and glorifies Him.

  • Serving one another should come from the heart, not a checklist. Counseling can help break negative patterns in marriage.

 

Couples Conversation Guide: 

Main takeaway: 

God’s design for marriage goes far beyond just coexisting with your spouse. Serving one another, respecting their wants and needs, and creating a loving relationship reflect the heart of the Lord and His design for the marriage relationship. 

 

Questions to Discuss: 

What stands in the way of you selflessly serving your spouse?

Has your relationship with your spouse become transactional?

 

QUOTES 

  • "Serving is saying, sure, I can do that."

  • "Don't stay stuck there."

  • "You don't just grow better."

  • "God sees you."

  • "It's gonna make a difference."

  • “If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security.”

  • “Having a marriage that’s not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy.”

  • “When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too.”

  • “I can’t meet all her needs, but God can.”

 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:  

  • Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons. 

  • Want an opportunity to dig into God’s Word as you navigate boundaries? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Boundaries in Marriage

  • If you haven’t browsed our site, you’ve GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com

  • Did you know we have resources for families- check those out HERE.

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