How can we have better perspective on what's happening in our lives? A clearer vision, that will help us take better decisions? 

Why does the brain perceive only what's here and now, and what's more comfortable? Why does our future suffer from our decisions? 

Some of us, go through life, and must make a mistake multiple times to learn the lesson. Some even never learn the lesson. 

The lessons that are to be learned are not just about others, or about life, it’s also and mainly about us. Our behaviours, patterns.