Our brains are wired for connection. It keeps us safe, warm, get dopamine from it, procreation, the way God made us… for relationship.
Our brains take any kind of disconnection as a signal that something BAD is happening. That we are going to be cut off from the “pack” or the safe connection in a relationship. Because our brains are constantly scanning for danger…
This is why we are willing to sacrifice a lot of short term self-care in order to make sure that we still stay a part of the “group (relationship).”
This is why we become people-pleasers.
Listen in on how you can stop sacrificing your own self care and do the most loving thing you can do in your relationships!
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