Back in our Money series in an ftuplife with a focus on Debt. Coming into your relationship, what if your partner has debt? Does the amount of debt matter. Debt can be a very heavy burden and allot of tension will arise if not handled correctly. In our culture today of getting that quality education to better yourself what happens when you bring massive amounts of student loans into your relationship.  Even better, if your partner is just an excessive spender and their credit card balances are, shall we say full. Tough conversation to have but how do you handle this?