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The Art Of Conversations - Effortless conversations!
Thank you for taking the time to listen or watch - I hope this added value to your world and got an idea or tip for your own journey.
Please feel free to share with me your thoughts @HannahTruscott on social media and use this hashtag - #whenfriendscomeover
And thank you to my friend @TOMLANCASTER for being a part of this conversation!
0.30: Kickoff - Why I chose Tom to speak with about Conversations. 2.15: What is your perspective on conversations in the world today?
- We can solve a lot of issues with good conversations and manage conflicts.
- Conversations are a huge untapped resource and the better we will get at getting along.
- How to approach our friends to serve them better as you get to know them.
- When you listen you discover so much more!
6.24: Do you think texting/voice messages, is that a conversation?
- Text is a great way to keep it live even if it’s shallow swimming.
- Some things can’t be done about text it involves presence.
8.47: What do you think the role of small talk plays in a conversation?
- When it’s used as a shallow end to a deep end.
- There is a purpose to small talk, it’s like warming up!
11.45: What are some key elements of a good conversation?
- A lack of agenda and the presence of purpose!
- There’s a reason we are having a conversation not just because of proximity.
- Look for where you can add value and celebrate.
16.15: Do you think locations play an important part in good conversations?
- Creating environments for a better conversation setting.
19.30: What would you do in this scenario… How do you manage when a person isn’t a presence when in their company and are wanting to have a good conversation?
- Find a way to do something / address it!
- Some ideas on how to approach the setting in a calm way and be in their shoes.
- Make the table more interesting than the phone.
- Knowing who you can be more direct with.
- How to protect your own boundaries and self worth.
- Don’t play the victim and work out how to serve them as a friend.
- The markers of a good friend!
25.59: Communicating your standards in relationships?
- Knowing the difference between control and standards.
- Skilfully articulate in a gentle and kind way.
- Become more observant.
- How to choose the environments for good conversations.
29.30: What are some ideas to create vulnerability in conversations?
- You have to take the first step and show people you’re willing to go there yourself.
- Create a space for authenticity and to be trusted.
- Being a genuine human.
- You’re not going to be vulnerable with someone who isn’t present.
- How to shelve stuff to be able to show up and be more present in the here and now.
35.36: What are some things people are left with feeling after a good conversation?
- You are left wit value being added!
- Leave with more than you came with.
Final fun question game! 1-49….What do you want to accomplish before the year ends and what’s stopping you? Let’s be more here and now in all our conversations : )
Thank you for taking the time to listen or watch - I hope this added value to your world and got an idea or tip for your own journey.
Please feel free to share with me your thoughts @HannahTruscott on social media and use this hashtag - #whenfriendscomeover#connection #conversations #community #whenfriendscomeover #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #communicationskills #friendshiptips #goodconversations #deepconversations #conversationtips #conversationskills #smalltalk #emotionalreading #dealwithconflict #bepresent #presence #boundaries #authenticself #boundaries101 #vulnerabilitytips #firstdatetips #firstdates #respectyourself #standards #observant #selfawareness #goodlistening
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By Hannah TruscottThe Art Of Conversations - Effortless conversations!
Thank you for taking the time to listen or watch - I hope this added value to your world and got an idea or tip for your own journey.
Please feel free to share with me your thoughts @HannahTruscott on social media and use this hashtag - #whenfriendscomeover
And thank you to my friend @TOMLANCASTER for being a part of this conversation!
0.30: Kickoff - Why I chose Tom to speak with about Conversations. 2.15: What is your perspective on conversations in the world today?
- We can solve a lot of issues with good conversations and manage conflicts.
- Conversations are a huge untapped resource and the better we will get at getting along.
- How to approach our friends to serve them better as you get to know them.
- When you listen you discover so much more!
6.24: Do you think texting/voice messages, is that a conversation?
- Text is a great way to keep it live even if it’s shallow swimming.
- Some things can’t be done about text it involves presence.
8.47: What do you think the role of small talk plays in a conversation?
- When it’s used as a shallow end to a deep end.
- There is a purpose to small talk, it’s like warming up!
11.45: What are some key elements of a good conversation?
- A lack of agenda and the presence of purpose!
- There’s a reason we are having a conversation not just because of proximity.
- Look for where you can add value and celebrate.
16.15: Do you think locations play an important part in good conversations?
- Creating environments for a better conversation setting.
19.30: What would you do in this scenario… How do you manage when a person isn’t a presence when in their company and are wanting to have a good conversation?
- Find a way to do something / address it!
- Some ideas on how to approach the setting in a calm way and be in their shoes.
- Make the table more interesting than the phone.
- Knowing who you can be more direct with.
- How to protect your own boundaries and self worth.
- Don’t play the victim and work out how to serve them as a friend.
- The markers of a good friend!
25.59: Communicating your standards in relationships?
- Knowing the difference between control and standards.
- Skilfully articulate in a gentle and kind way.
- Become more observant.
- How to choose the environments for good conversations.
29.30: What are some ideas to create vulnerability in conversations?
- You have to take the first step and show people you’re willing to go there yourself.
- Create a space for authenticity and to be trusted.
- Being a genuine human.
- You’re not going to be vulnerable with someone who isn’t present.
- How to shelve stuff to be able to show up and be more present in the here and now.
35.36: What are some things people are left with feeling after a good conversation?
- You are left wit value being added!
- Leave with more than you came with.
Final fun question game! 1-49….What do you want to accomplish before the year ends and what’s stopping you? Let’s be more here and now in all our conversations : )
Thank you for taking the time to listen or watch - I hope this added value to your world and got an idea or tip for your own journey.
Please feel free to share with me your thoughts @HannahTruscott on social media and use this hashtag - #whenfriendscomeover#connection #conversations #community #whenfriendscomeover #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice #relationshiptips #communicationskills #friendshiptips #goodconversations #deepconversations #conversationtips #conversationskills #smalltalk #emotionalreading #dealwithconflict #bepresent #presence #boundaries #authenticself #boundaries101 #vulnerabilitytips #firstdatetips #firstdates #respectyourself #standards #observant #selfawareness #goodlistening