You see what you’re looking for … so look for the GOOD in your spouse.
Philippians 4:8 – Dwell on these (positive) thingsI Corinthians 1:4; 11:2; II Corinthians 7:3-4, 16; 8:7; 9:2 – Paul found things to compliment about the Corinthians. (Yes, those!)Proverbs 4:23; Matthew 15:19 – Heart actionsProverbs 21:9, 19 – Marriage can be miserable.I Corinthians 13:4-7 – Love is optimistic.Proverbs 17:19 – Drop it already.Genesis 29:20 – This is what it looks like when positive interpretations outweigh the negative.Little things every day are more powerful than empty grand gestures.
I John 1:6-7 – Nowhere does God instruct people to do the right thing only occasionally.I John 3:16-18 – If you were put on trial, and the court was trying to determine if you love your spouse, could they find enough evidence to prove it?How does your wife know you love her?How does your husband know you love him?Matthew 6:5 – Consistent love > empty gestures