Figuring It Out

How to Make Friends as an ADULT in a big city (for both introverts & extroverts)


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  • Holly Cooke is the founder of 'The Lonely Girls Club', one of the UK’s largest communities for women. It started with 10 people in a Facebook group with 5 girls meeting at a pancake house in Covent Garden in November 2018.
  • 6 years later, 'The Lonely Girls Club' is an organisation of over 100k community members. It runs weekly events across the country for members to attend solo, have fun, connect with others and leave having met an incredible group of people to start building friendships with.
  • ⌚️TIMESTAMPS
    00:00 - Intro
    01:30 - The Lonely Girls Club
    02:39 - Bumble BFF
    06:28 - Not everyone is your person
    08:02 - 50% of adults feel lonely
    10:14 - Sense of community
    11:13 - Member club of 100k women
    13:12 - Japan as a collectivist society
    14:20 - Connections across all ages
    19:17 - Loneliness among older people
    20:15 - Working from home & loneliness
    22:07 - Self love vs seeking companionship
    32:00 - The scariest thing I did
    33:58 - People are kind
    39:49- Symptoms of loneliness
    44:07 - Friends have different priorities
    47:16 - The 'How are you?' question
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    Figuring It OutBy Jemma Permalloo