• TIMESTAMPS00:00 - Intro02:15 - The Origin of ‘Sweet Bobby’04:08 - Simran seemed to know everything about your personal life… why not tell your friends?05:41- Did anyone ever tell you, “This seems fishy—why not do a video call?”09:15 - At any point, did this all feel… real?10:16 - What made you finally say, “Yes, let’s go public”?12:06 - Catfishing: Should it be considered a cybercrime?15:25 - Looking back, were there any RED FLAGS that make you think, “This should’ve stopped here”?20:58 - Do you think people will ever truly understand your story?24:48 - 1 in 4 people have fallen victim to catfishing… why is this happening more than ever?29:36 - Did being part of a close-knit Punjabi Sikh community make this whole thing seem more legit?34:48 - How has this changed your views on long-distance relationships and real… brown men?36:38 - Does it bother you that the documentary was called “Sweet Bobby”?38:27 - Simran worked in banking… how did she even find the time to pull this off?42:26 - You stopped attending community events… but Simran carried on like nothing happened?42:49 - Did you guys actually live in the same neighborhood?45:53 - Why hasn’t the Punjabi Sikh community held Simran accountable?48:24 - Have you ever run into her in London? Is she still in the UK?49:10 - Some say this was jealousy… others say she had romantic feelings for you. What do you think?53:11 - Do you still feel “Bobby” owes you anything?59:26 - When you showed your dad the apology letter… why was he ‘casual’ about it?01:05:09 - Do people still update you on what Simran is up to today?01:15:56 - After all this… did you go back to dating?
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