A common theme in my Counselling sessions. 

Why are we needy and what does it look like? 

• You may be always running to your partner for help?
• Perhaps you are constantly texting, messaging even if they are at work?
• Needing affection and attention from your partner?

Finding what you need from within yourself and not your partner is the key. Understanding how the masculine and feminine energy works is a great place to start. The differences between immature and mature energies.