What are you tolerating? What are you tolerating in your life, relationships, business, etc?  If you want to be above average you must treat yourself above average. Learn to be more by creating and enforcing your boundaries with yourself and with others. Boundaries: guidelines,rules or limits that a person creates to identify for him- or herself with. This is self care, this is how you add to your self worth.This is self love.This is crucial. Do you know what is and isn’t acceptable in your relationships?