Wrong holiday! Crap! I don’t even know where I’m at in the world it’s because it’s that we all miss that it’s not enough gonna say you’re right this is New Year New Year’s I’d never change the hat thing but you know realize somebody said it is eight are you really leaving it’s New Years like January is next month next week next year next decade so you’re gonna get what is this what is this happen are you doing what does this hat mean what do you mean for New Year’s you know this is the kind of man you won’t get free aware right you won’t get fouled up Ellen I want to get freaky with me[Laughter][Applause][Music]oh crap I don’t even know where a man in the world it’s because it’s that we all know that it’s not enough gonna say you’re right this is New Year New Year’s so I gotta change the hat thing but you know realize somebody said it is eight are you really leaving it’s New Year’s like January is next month next week next year next decade so you’re gonna get what is this what does this have are you doing what does this hat mean what do you mean for New Year’s you know this is the kind of man you won’t get free[Laughter]all right so you can find this on Instagram Twitter or podcast Apple podcasts we have a website have a marriage calm I’m currently working atredesigning it you didn’t know but I am boom all right kind of everywhere we’re trying that we’re trying to get a little more skilled with this thing it’s a new for your patients something today maybe get a facial I just look like athree-day drunk she’s gonna love this later when she sees a nun no it’s a 60nose my comedy you know we’ve gone in the three hundreds have talked a lot about sex in different ways and settings if you must any other three hundred you missed out on sex problems but you can always go back we we have know that sex is gone you can never give it back again okay soyou’re gonna exercise stuff is going on sale this is the big push forget thatNew Year’s resolution in and actually just want to challenge you the sameexact ways everything else because you’ve one more thing on your list right okay no um not to worry about exercise not to worry about anything but actually invest in your marriage because you could be fat and happy which is better than being fat and divorced reallyreally important thing you know thegenerations that thing was really reallygood when we were talking about earliertoday who said you know generations babyboomers and those before the SilentGeneration they had to work reallyreally really really hard for things theSilent Generation had to work harderthan the baby boomer generation and ifsomething was broken you had to figureout how to fix it right because therewere there was enough money to make justgo and buy another buy another when thatdidn’t actually make things that waythere was no crime there was no Amazonthere was no internet yeah so I think sowhat your on the marriage was a littlebit easier not I’m not saying easier I’mjust saying what else is yet to do thatday well but the thought to put into itwas easy there was work on it that wasmerrily whatever baby sister yeah so youhad to work on your marriage because youknow cuz you’re the only person that’sgonna entertain you there’s nothing ontelevision and the radio was kind of athing and you know like your grandmothershe she had stories of what saving 10 oreating powdered milk yeah and so if youlook at that generation then you move upto the baby boomer generation which wasmy parents they they worked reallyreally hard to make sure that they havea successful marriagethat generates the next words is ourgeneration week we are latchkey kids ourparents went to work because thatprevious generation instilled a highwork ethic and so we were left homeal