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Don’t leave your Spouse alone to deal with their stuff. Go and help them! Marriage is work, the hidden work is to continually working with each other and to pull each other out of yourself induced mess. Let your partner help you by being humble and grateful. In turn you should go and help them with their stuff. Your Marriage is against the world not each other.

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When pride is present, intimacy is absent. A couple can be full of pride or they can have a healthy marriage, but they cannot have both. A wise couple will recognize the agony of pride and will do everything in their power to eradicate from themselves and their relationship

Everything is personal.Fault-findingRefusal to be influenced by their spouseIgnorance of the need of othersAddiction to attentionRefusal to submit to authorityInability to see opposing viewpointsNever asking for help, always expecting serviceAbsence of sacrifice and submissionRefusal to say “I’m sorry.”

Wrong holiday! Crap! I don’t even know where I’m at in the world it’s because it’s that we all miss that it’s not enough gonna say you’re right this is New Year New Year’s I’d never change the hat thing but you know realize somebody said it is eight are you really leaving it’s New Years like January is next month next week next year next decade so you’re gonna get what is this what is this happen are you doing what does this hat mean what do you mean for New Year’s you know this is the kind of man you won’t get free aware right you won’t get fouled up Ellen I want to get freaky with me[Laughter][Applause][Music]oh crap I don’t even know where a man in the world it’s because it’s that we all know that it’s not enough gonna say you’re right this is New Year New Year’s so I gotta change the hat thing but you know realize somebody said it is eight are you really leaving it’s New Year’s like January is next month next week next year next decade so you’re gonna get what is this what does this have are you doing what does this hat mean what do you mean for New Year’s you know this is the kind of man you won’t get free[Laughter]all right so you can find this on Instagram Twitter or podcast Apple podcasts we have a website have a marriage calm I’m currently working atredesigning it you didn’t know but I am boom all right kind of everywhere we’re trying that we’re trying to get a little more skilled with this thing it’s a new for your patients something today maybe get a facial I just look like athree-day drunk she’s gonna love this later when she sees a nun no it’s a 60nose my comedy you know we’ve gone in the three hundreds have talked a lot about sex in different ways and settings if you must any other three hundred you missed out on sex problems but you can always go back we we have know that sex is gone you can never give it back again okay soyou’re gonna exercise stuff is going on sale this is the big push forget thatNew Year’s resolution in and actually just want to challenge you the sameexact ways everything else because you’ve one more thing on your list right okay no um not to worry about exercise not to worry about anything but actually invest in your marriage because you could be fat and happy which is better than being fat and divorced reallyreally important thing you know thegenerations that thing was really reallygood when we were talking about earliertoday who said you know generations babyboomers and those before the SilentGeneration they had to work reallyreally really really hard for things theSilent Generation had to work harderthan the baby boomer generation and ifsomething was broken you had to figureout how to fix it right because therewere there was enough money to make justgo and buy another buy another when thatdidn’t actually make things that waythere was no crime there was no Amazonthere was no internet yeah so I think sowhat your on the marriage was a littlebit easier not I’m not saying easier I’mjust saying what else is yet to do thatday well but the thought to put into itwas easy there was work on it that wasmerrily whatever baby sister yeah so youhad to work on your marriage because youknow cuz you’re the only person that’sgonna entertain you there’s nothing ontelevision and the radio was kind of athing and you know like your grandmothershe she had stories of what saving 10 oreating powdered milk yeah and so if youlook at that generation then you move upto the baby boomer generation which wasmy parents they they worked reallyreally hard to make sure that they havea successful marriagethat generates the next words is ourgeneration week we are latchkey kids ourparents went to work because thatprevious generation instilled a highwork ethic and so we were left homeal

 

Want to get a little more intimate during one of the most stressful and busy times of the year? Here are our 12 sexy days of Christmas tips, tricks, and fun things to do to bring you closer together before Christmas.

#1. Christmas lingerie – you can either just get a dollar store Santa hat and nothing else or go all out and find some sexy Christmas lingerie for him or her.

#2. Schedule an overnighter. This can mean having the kids stay the night with someone else or the grandparents, or book a night away. Vacation sex is best, remember!

#3. Big red bow – Wrap up a part of your body in a bow and “present” your self to your spouse. You can even throw in some fun cellophane wrapped around your naked body covered with bows and have fun letting your spouse “unwrap you”.

#4. Fondle each other in public – Either squeeze each other’s butts while you’re out Christmas shopping, do a little fondling when no one is looking but remember, don’t get arrested.

#5. Hold hands – Whether you’re out shopping, going on a date, or just cuddling on the couch, hold your partner’s hand for at least 5 to 10 minutes.

#6. Go to bed naked – At least once between now and Christmas both of you should go to bed naked. Even if you have to put clothes on later in the night, start out naked and see where it goes.

#7. Use ice – Ice is a fun and free sex toy. Women can hold ice, frozen grapes, or Altoids in their mouth while performing oral sex on their husband and he can have fun using the ice to stimulate her nipples, erogenous zones, or put the ice in places that will melt immediately wink wink!

#8. Cuddle – Whether it’s out on a date or just in front of the fireplace watching Christmas movies, come up under a blanket and hey, fondle your spouse while you’re at it.

#9. Date – Schedule a date somewhere during this busy time of year. It can be a simple coffee break, a drive with some fast food, dinner, lunch, or get creative. If you can visit your spouse at work, bring them a snack, coffee, or lunch.

#10. Kiss for 20 seconds – As Tim said, you get to pick the body part, me on the other hand, I like kissing on the lips for a good, long time.

#11. Write a love letter – This can be as simple as a poem that you text to your spouse, and email to their work, or a beautiful little love letter or note slipped into their lunch box or somewhere around the house that the spouse is likely to find it during the day.

#12. Planned for 2020 – Take some time, either on your date or by yourselves and make up a plan for what you want your marriage to look like next year. Do you want to change over the next year? Grow? Are there goals that you want such as having sex more often or scheduling sex? Do you want to try to get out of financial debt and how will you both do that? What are some plans that are simple, easy, and something that you can stick to that will put you and your marriage in a better position this time next year?

Don’t let the busyness of the season take away from loving on your spouse and finding those intimate times. Whether you’re laughing over where you’ve placed that bow or really coming together over your marriage goals for 2020, we want you to have a fun, festive, and wonderful marriage and holiday season.

Merry Christmas!

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