How to have Extraordinary Relationships

How to respect humanity Dr. Lucy Pollock | S5 E7


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Dr Lucy Pollock is a British consultant geriatrician celebrated for her clear-eyed, compassionate approach to ageing and end-of-life care. With decades of experience in the NHS, she has guided countless patients and families through the often complex, emotional decisions that come with growing older.

She is the author of The Book About Getting Older, a candid and reassuring guide that demystifies later life, and The Golden Rule, in which she explores the ethical and human dilemmas of modern medicine with warmth, wisdom, and honesty. Across both books, Dr Pollock challenges the idea that medicine should always prolong life at any cost, instead championing dignity, autonomy, and meaningful conversations about what really matters.

Respected for her humanity as much as her expertise, she has become a trusted voice in reshaping how we think about ageing, care, and the choices that define a good life.


Key Points of the Episode:

  • A summary of her two successful books and how they came about.
  • Her manifesto for change and better care for the elderly.
  • The shocking statistic on medication and its problems.
  • The key traits of great geriatric carers.
  • "Upward Helicopter" care and the issues with it.
  • The mistakes some doctors make. (from a place of love)
  • Her short experience as a surgeon.
  • The game changing advice that sealed her professional direction.
  • Her experience of a "normal" childhood in Ireland.
  • Her thoughts of AI in medicine.
  • How we are not quite as good at longevity as we thought we are.
  • The history of elderly care since WW2.
  • The sad case of waste in healthcare.
  • Her thoughts on preventative medicine.
  • What elderly people have learned about life.
  • Her fascinating thoughts on assisted dying.
  • ....and her thoughts on unassisted dying.


Links to her two books here:

The Book of Getting Older

The Golden Rule



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