When we think about boundaries we typically think about all of the times people overstep them. But we don’t ever really discuss how we come to set realistic boundaries, how to express our boundaries to people AND how to hold people accountable. In this episode, I dissect, unpack, and unravel what boundaries mean to me and how to set boundaries that are really clear.

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11. How to Set Clear MFing Boundaries

Welcome to Self Care IRL, a brave space for you to create better wellness experiences. Join me, Ty Alexander, wellness blogger and best selling author of "Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died",  as I explore strategies and ideas for becoming your best self. This podcast will inspire you to take life by the horns and enjoy the ride despite your traumas or circumstances.

Topics include relationships (especially the one with self), transitions, inner growth, life purpose, spirituality, and whatever else the world throws our way. Sharing the most intimate parts of myself with you...this is Self Care IRL, a podcast by Ty Alexander.

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Someone on Twitter recently reminded me that I use to be on Beyonce’s Internet really writing. Time and tasks have me missing that part of me. But I actually read my own words on this blog post and I sobbed. I also took a few deep breaths of relief because I know I am not in this dark place anymore.
I wrote this blog post about grief in 2014 but I felt like it deserved a new space to breathe. After you listen it let’s chat (hoping to find my people).

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101. Lemme read you this email I got (it's about depression btw)

WOW! A hunnit episodes later and you are still here. Clap it up for yourselves while I take you down memory lane. This episode is our origin story (I rambled, sorry). Enjoy. 

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100. Wow we really cleared "a hunnit" episodes + our origin story

Manifesting is a larger umbrella term for a lot of aspects of making your goals a reality. So in today's episode you and I are gonna discuss how you can get better at manifesting your dreams and goals.

RESOURCES:
Make It Happen Journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:
Join in on my intimate writings on Substack - https://tyalexander.substack.com/
Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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99. These are the 5 manifesting techniques I'm using to create my dream life

In today's episode, I am going to give you some suggestions on how we can reframe our sadness. Now all of these suggestions are under the assumption that you have already sat with the sadness, you have reconciled that you are sad, you have determined why you are sad, and you are now ready to reframe it. This absolutely does that mean that the minute that you begin to feel sadness rising that you "quote unquote" reframe it. Because now, that is avoidance and we're not doing that.

RESOURCES:
Make It Happen journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal

5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge

My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:
Join in on my intimate writings on Substack - https://tyalexander.substack.com/
Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

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98. My journey to reframing my sadness

I watched the two part docuseries, Where Is Wendy Williams? and I am honestly a bit floored. Which is why it's now two weeks later and I am just gathering my thoughts. It was not what I expected. I was geeked to see Wendy cut up in the ways only she can. Messy, cheeky, and semi rude. But instead we got a raw, unfiltered, and highly vulnerable depiction of the media legend.

In this episode I unpack some of the lessons I learned from watching, Where Is Wendy Williams? .

RESOURCES:
Make It Happen journal - https://tyalexander.co/downloads/p/make-it-happen-journal
5 Day Gratitude Challenge - https://tyalx.com/gratitude-challenge
My debut book, Things I Wish I Knew Before My Mom Died, is available in bookstores everywhere - https://amzn.to/3M7BZ8h

CONNECT WITH US:
Join in on my intimate writings on Substack - https://tyalexander.substack.com/

Also. Consider subscribing on Apple Podcasts to unlock our besties subscriber only audio experience. You'll get exclusive audio, interviews, ad free episodes, and monthly guided meditations.

FOLLOW US:
Self Care IRL on IG: https://tyalx.com/selfcareirl-ig
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11. How to Set Clear MFing Boundaries

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