Relationship Secrets Made Simple for Queer Women

How To Shift Chaos In Your Relationship With New Perspective


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Welcome to the Relationships Secrets Made Simple for Queer Women show...

 

A podcast about teaching queer women how to improve and strengthen their relationship with actionable steps, with Corinne Conway as your coach.

 

10 Perspectives to a Better Relationship Training Series

Because Amidst the quarantine.. Amidst the chaos of 2020.. and Amidst the uncertainty...  

 

We all want to grow in our relationships, to make them stronger, to be of support to our partners... to walk into an exceptional season full of love, relationship peace and new perspective. 

 

To show up better for each other...  

 

When To Seek Out A Mentor

 

If you're struggling with tough emotions in your relationship this season, seek out a mentor, someone that will help you identify what you're feeling and what you're struggling with and how to turn it around. In this series, 10 Perspectives to a Better Relationship, I will walk you through 10 Perspectives that will do just that and you will learn how to identify and shift perspectives together for the better.     

 

And as a bonus, you can get my free accompanying workbook so that you work through and process in real time, and join my free community of queer women who are on the journey with you..

 

We as a community can encourage each other to be better together. You can join by going to corinneconway.com/10perspectives.

Big Insights

 

Choose the perspective to prepare you for the season that your relationship is in right now. 

 

One of the most important things that I can share with you about showing up well for your partnership, for your marriage is, in this season is, to intentionally choose the perspective to prepare you for the season that your relationship is in right now.  

 

And no one is prepared for a pandemic but under any circumstance, under any amount of chaos that you may face, you can control your perspective and you can change it for the better.  

 

Three keys to a new perspective in chaos.

 

1 - Control your perspective. 

 

The first thing is you can control your perspective.  

 

Your thoughts.

 

Your vantage point.  

 

Your angle.  

 

Your point of view. 

 

Your story. 

 

So in this picture in your mind, you have to think about what your perspective looks like…  

 

The picture that you see, the attitude that you have about it, is the perspective on how you show up or not for an exceptional relationship.  

 

2 - You can change your perspective. 

The second thing that I really want  to share with you is, you can change your perspective. Even in a pandemic, you can choose it. When we first heard about coronavirus in February 2020, all we saw were numbers of people dying on the screen. We were devastated. And my heart goes out to anyone who has lost someone. We lost someone… but for us we had to reshape our perspective when we tested positive for coronavirus.  

 

3 - What new perspective do you need to lead in this season? 

And the third is, what new perspective do you need to lead in this season? If you're a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a mother, a wife, a friend… what new perspective do you need to show up well to have an exceptional relationship for who you need to be in this season?  

 

Maybe it's choosing to work on things together instead of avoiding conflict.

 

Maybe it's looking at your own toxic traits instead of blaming your partner. 

 

Maybe it's finding a mentor or coach instead of ignoring the patterns that you seemingly repeat over and over.

 

Sometimes it's choosing the perspective that we show up with our whole heart this time instead of half because of the hurts we experienced in the past. 

 

Sometimes it's choosing the perspective to work on ourselves instead of waiting for our partners to change. 

 

Choosing perspective is walking into a new season and it's walking into courage.  

 

You can be still in chaos.    

 

Join me for 8 more mindset moving perspectives  in this series. 

 

To grow in your relationship to make it stronger 

 

Amidst the pandemic.. Amidst the chaos of  2020. 

 

To show up better for each other...  

 

To help to advance you into a better season now...   

 

I believe in you.  

 

Download your mini execution plan / cheatsheet for this episode

 

Hey friend,  did you know, I have an awesome freebie for this episode, with a mini execution plan, and intimate behind-the-scenes insights… all tied together by my mission to make EVERYTHING you listen to as actionable as possible, to move you into a better season?

 

You can download by clicking here.

 

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Relationship Secrets Made Simple for Queer WomenBy Corinne Conway