Every single relationship looked like it was finally something new, no more cheaters, boy was I wrong. It wasn't until I took some time with myself and learned these lessons that I stopped attracting men who were what I was looking for. 

We can get so lost in books telling us why people cheat or Seventeen Magazine, Maxim, whatever else magazines saying it's not us it's them, but this doesn't stop the pattern. We must understand that's it takes two to make something amazing and a disaster. 

Just as we can understand why a narcissist is a narcissist, if we never understand why part of us needs them we continue on unhealed- having narcissist bosses, the narcissist lovers, narcissist neighbors, narcissist interactions all magnetically heading towards us. 

Are you ready for real love? Not the kind that lasts a week, a month or one night? Let's get listening and changing this pattern!