All the "scripts" and Gentle Parenting techniques weren't working, so I began diving deeper into how to actually stop backtalk without punishments, yelling, bribing, or using fear to get my kids to cooperate.

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In this video I share about: How to stop backtalk without yelling, gentle parenting for backtalk, how to stop backchatting, how to handle disrespect from kids, why my child's backtalk triggers me, how to stay calm when kids talk back, why does my child talk back to me, attention seeking behavior in kids, needs behind disrespect, what to do when your child says I hate you, how to respond when kids say hurtful things, how to identify behavior patterns in children, why does my child repeat the same behavior, why back talk is triggering, how your childhood trauma affects your parenting, gabor mate trauma, what to do when punishments stop working, gentle discipline that actually works, how to stop yelling at your kids, how to be a calmer parent.

Chapters

0:00 Intro

1:46 Backtalk Triggers Us

3:30 Why is my kid using backtalk?

6:47 “I Hate YOU.”

11:33 Your Child’s Patterns

12:45 Backtalk Triggering the Parent

14:40 Triggering YOUR Childhood Wounds

18:17 When Punishments Aren’t Working

20:46 Parenting Step One

23:30 Parenting Step Two

27:54 Parenting Step Three

29:56 Parenting Step Four

32:58 You Fall into OLD HABITS

34:10 It’s okay to be an Imperfect Parent

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