Spontaneous outburst of behaviour are, unfortunately, very common. In those difficult situations, parent tend to feel ill-prepared to deal with their children and normally there is a big conflict at the end of it. Then we just keep quiet and wait for the next outburst. As they repeat itself, the severity of those moments increase, becoming easily shouting competitions. However, there is a better way and it starts with having a heart to heart conversation with your child. In this episode, I explain the situation from both points of view (parents and son/daughter) as well as provide an alternative approach for you to consider. If you are looking for a magic wand to change everything with one amazing spell, sorry to disappoint you. If you are looking for understanding and a process to help you help your kid learn about their emotions and how to manage them for the long run, you'll enjoy it.