If you feel like you're going around in circles in dating, I get it.

It can be extremely frustrating and exhausting to spend so much time, energy and effort in online dating, texting and dating yet see no progress.

You may be trapped in the illusion that if you do MORE, you’ll get better and different results, so you push and force yourself.

You may be taking a break from dating, waiting and staying in the place of inaction. 

And here’s what I want to offer you:

Our thoughts create our results.

So, if you continue to think the same thoughts about dating, you’ll continue getting the same results (or lack of results).

Understanding this is EVERYTHING. That’s exactly why I created a new episode, #75 How to think new thoughts in dating. 

In this week’s episode, you’re about to discover:

✨ How your thoughts create your results

✨ Why taking different actions doesn’t guarantee different results

✨ Real life stories of single women trying to change their results

✨ What’s possible for YOU in love when you shift your thoughts

Here are a few gold nuggets from this episode: 

When you focus on just actions, without changing what you believe, without changing what you think, your results will not change.”

“You might think that the solution is outside of you. It’s not.”

“You carry yourself everywhere you go.”

“This is why it's so important to do this work by investing in yourself and getting coaching.”

“What all of our Love by Design members have in common is that we do work on our minds, we do work on what we think. Because your thoughts are your identity—how you show up—and they are your beliefs and what you carry with you and in you. Your thoughts about men, yourself, dating, and what's possible for you, your beliefs about your city, the dating scene, your age and dating apps are going to determine what's possible for you.“

—Polina

P.S. If you’re ready to find the love of your life, I want to invite you to schedule a free private “Attract Your Man Now” consultation with me: https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins. You’ll get clarity on where you are and why, the actual reasons why you’re single, where you want to be and exactly how to get there, and then make a decision for moving forward. I’ll see you there!