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The most dangerous part of burnout is how normal it can look from the outside. You can be the one who “handles it,” gets promoted, keeps the family running, and still feel like you are disappearing behind a mask.
We sit down with Dr. Cristina Lauk, licensed mental health counselor and PhD in clinical psychology, to talk about ADHD, trauma, and nervous system regulation through the lens of midlife reinvention. Cristina shares how growing up as a hyperactive girl in an era that rarely recognized ADHD in girls created layers of shame and microaggressions that later showed up as complex trauma. We dig into the cost of high achievement when it is powered by othering, perfectionism, and chronic stress, and what happens when midlife finally makes the old strategy unsustainable.
From yoga, breathwork, and somatic movement to positive psychology and meaning making, Cristina explains how healing becomes practical and daily, not abstract. We explore how meaning reduces anxiety and protects against burnout by expanding cognitive bandwidth and building resilience, plus three concrete tools you can use right now: values tied to roles, journal prompts for post-traumatic growth, and a redemptive story exercise that helps integrate your past instead of fragmenting you. Most of all, Cristina offers a truth every woman in transition needs to hear: you can get off the broken path at any time, starting with a single decision and a few new choices.
If you are navigating midlife funk, ADHD overwhelm, identity loss, or trauma recovery, this conversation is a grounded place to start. Subscribe, share with a sister who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find their way back to their spark.
Connect with Dr. Louk:
www.peacehumanistic.com
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578177422671
https://www.youtube.com/@drcristinalouk
https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristinalouk/
https://medium.com/@cristinalouk
Connect with Brenda and get your FREE Midlife Clarity MAP
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Buy Lady and the Tribe; How to Create Empowering Friendship Circles
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By Brenda Billings RidgleyThe most dangerous part of burnout is how normal it can look from the outside. You can be the one who “handles it,” gets promoted, keeps the family running, and still feel like you are disappearing behind a mask.
We sit down with Dr. Cristina Lauk, licensed mental health counselor and PhD in clinical psychology, to talk about ADHD, trauma, and nervous system regulation through the lens of midlife reinvention. Cristina shares how growing up as a hyperactive girl in an era that rarely recognized ADHD in girls created layers of shame and microaggressions that later showed up as complex trauma. We dig into the cost of high achievement when it is powered by othering, perfectionism, and chronic stress, and what happens when midlife finally makes the old strategy unsustainable.
From yoga, breathwork, and somatic movement to positive psychology and meaning making, Cristina explains how healing becomes practical and daily, not abstract. We explore how meaning reduces anxiety and protects against burnout by expanding cognitive bandwidth and building resilience, plus three concrete tools you can use right now: values tied to roles, journal prompts for post-traumatic growth, and a redemptive story exercise that helps integrate your past instead of fragmenting you. Most of all, Cristina offers a truth every woman in transition needs to hear: you can get off the broken path at any time, starting with a single decision and a few new choices.
If you are navigating midlife funk, ADHD overwhelm, identity loss, or trauma recovery, this conversation is a grounded place to start. Subscribe, share with a sister who needs it, and leave a review so more women can find their way back to their spark.
Connect with Dr. Louk:
www.peacehumanistic.com
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578177422671
https://www.youtube.com/@drcristinalouk
https://www.linkedin.com/in/cristinalouk/
https://medium.com/@cristinalouk
Connect with Brenda and get your FREE Midlife Clarity MAP
Website
YouTube
Buy Lady and the Tribe; How to Create Empowering Friendship Circles
Join the Save the World Sisterhood