Shadows are those things about yourself that you know , you are in touch with and you don’t like and you are afraid that people will find these about you. All of us have them.

We live with the law of duality, which states that everything is on a continuum and has a complementary opposite within the whole. 

Masculine and Feminine - are two energies in the same body.

Light and Dark, Day and Night; these are the same things on opposite spectrums

Honoring our shadows honors our dual nature. 

When we keep our shadows in the dark, we always look at them as something outside of us. Something that we have to “work on”

If you don’t know who you are and claim it, you will consistently look to others for permission to be who you think you might be or desire to be. You’ll always be caught in that loop of approval.

However If you know who you are with conviction then no one can define your worth or bring you down or say what’s possible for you or not

When you own your shadows and bring them to light, you can truly see them as a part of you rather than outside of you. 

In this episode, you’ll learn how you can bring your shadows to light and make them a part of you.

Download ‘Honor Your Shadow’’ meditation here -
https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/howtowomxn/Shadow_Meditation.mp3

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My guest today is Bushra Azhar, The Queen of Persuasion. She believes that human beings are irrational and trying to persuade someone through a rational argument is like trying to stop a 5-year-old from ODing on M&Ms by recounting the evils of high fructose corn syrup.

She is a self-made multi-millionaire and an international bestselling author on Selling & Consumer Behavior. She teaches tiny businesses how to make big bucks, using the Psychology of Persuasion and her students have used her persuasion hacks to make millions of dollars in 50+ different industries while slashing their ad spend by 80%.

Here’s a sample of what you’ll hear on this episode:

• How Bushra went from being a self-made multimillionaire and a best-selling author on sales & consumer behavior
• The importance to go deep and not wide in your business
• The magic behind Bushra’s ability to get repeat customers again and again
• How Bushra deals with trolls on the internet
• And because this is a patriarchy smashing podcast, we talked about the meaning of Bushra’s name (yes, it has something to do with patriarchy) and how Bushra has time and again bucked the system.

Get in touch with Bushra here - https://www.thepersuasionrevolution.com/about/

Find Deepshikha here - https://www.instagram.com/deepshikhasairam/

Follow along The Deep End Project  - https://socialiquegroupe.com/blog/

Patriarchy has been running the show in Online Business. Over the years we have been indoctrinated with messaging and marketing practices that are unethical, out of integrity and not inclusive.

Knowingly or unknowingly we’ve all been a part of it. 2020 was a wake up call we all badly needed. There’s no going back but the way forward is messy, unclear and not easy.

Today on How to Womxn, I am talking to Tarzan Kay about all this and much more! Together, we are unpacking Patriarchy as it exists in Online Marketing and discovering ethical ways to dismantle it.

Here’s a small sample of what you will hear:

• The story behind Tarzan’s name and how it changed her life
• The “Rags to Riches” story we’ve all heard in Marketing and how it has indoctrinated us to believe in “6 figures in 6 months” messaging
• The beauty behind sharing your process of unlearning and healing AND the mess behind sharing from your gaping, bleeding wound
• How to practice ethical marketing while using Principles of Persuasion
• The shifts Tarzan has made in her business to be more inclusive and being ethical in marketing

You can find Tarzan here - www.tarzankay.com 

Follow her on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/tarzan_kay/

Find Deepshikha on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/deepshikhasairam/

Follow along on The Deep End Project here - https://socialiquegroupe.com/blog/

This episode is one of my favorites, not only because it’s with the one and only Laura Belgray, but because we really went wide and deep in this one. 

From Laura’s story of how she became Laura F*cking Belgray to a very honest conversation on ‘cancel culture’ and pressure of performative activism on Social Media. 

Listen in and get inspired by how Laura has created her business by being completely and unapologetically herself. 

Follow Laura Belgray on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/talkingshrimpnyc/

Get on her email list (trust me, you’d want to!) - https://talkingshrimp.com

Laura’s Article on being Productive even as a Lazy person - https://blog.usejournal.com/im-a-lazy-person-who-rejects-99-of-self-help-tips-5f6b7496829f

Find Deepshikha on Instagram  - https://www.instagram.com/deepshikhasairam/

Catch up (and join in) on The Deep End Project - https://socialiquegroupe.com/blog/

On today’s episode, I am joined by Candice Hozza, Spiritual Strategist and Intuitive Mentor. Candace and I talk about how women today can run their heart centered businesses by tuning into the Power of YOU!

Find Candice here - https://www.candicehozza.com/

Find her on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/candicehozza/

Find Deepshikha on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/deepshikhasairam/

You can follow along on the Deep End Project here - https://socialiquegroupe.com/blog/

Have you ever wondered what would it be like if you were able to Co-Create your desires, your dreams exactly how you want it? On today’s episode, Taryn Watts, Founder of The Mind Rebel™ Academy and Creator of The Mind Rebel™ Method, shares her story & the revolutionary method that will show you how to Align Yourself to your highest self and create a fabulous life.

We also talk about:

• The Mind Rebel™ Method and How to use it 
• How to manifest your life’s biggest desires using the 3rd Rich Lady lesson - Co-Creating your Desires

Join their Facebook Group -https://www.facebook.com/groups/591664067858977

Follow The Mind Rebel™ Academy on Instagram here -https://www.instagram.com/the_mind_rebel_academy/

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CEO’s aren’t born. They are made. Inside today’s episode former clinical psychotherapist turned CEO Development Strategist, Kelly Ruta shares with us how to create powerful psychological breakthroughs that always create exponential business growth.

Find Kelly Ruta here:

https://kellyruta.com

https://www.instagram.com/kellysruta/

Sales is the number 1 skill women need to learn in order to thrive in an anti patriarchal culture. And, you do not have to do it the sleazy, icky way. In today’s episode, Laura Wright, Master Sales Coach shares with us how she had to un-learn the patriarchal way of doing sales in order to create an abundance of wealth and opportunities for herself and many other women. It wasn’t easy and she had to face many challenges but she continues to Buck The System and Sell with Love.

Find Laura at www.epicatsales.com

Join her Facebook Group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/337084626858411

Your Inner Wisdom aka your Intuition is The voice of your higher self

The whole idea behind living your life like a Rich Lady is living from your body and not your mind. Our goal should be to tame our mind. And not let it tame us.

But we have so much shame when it comes to practicing our intuition when it is one thing if you strengthen, you will never have shiny object syndrome.

This doesn’t mean you won’t ever buy a course or start planting your own food (although if that’s what you want, you can do that). This means you will take decisions not from a place of “I need to fix myself” but from a place of “this is best for me to grow and develop”

There are 3 steps to practicing your Intuition:

• Practice
• Ask
• Trust

Join Deepshikha’s Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/createyourrichladylifeandbiz for more exercises and guidance on building you inner wisdom

Oh my gosh, this episode is so juicy. Marisa lost her dad when she was very young. Raised by her mother and in a very strong Italian Matriarchal Culture, Patriarchy showed up in her life in a very different way. We talk about how she navigated that in her life.

Now she runs a highly successful business with her husband supporting her as a partner in her life and business. We chat about how they balance their life and business and how has deals with the typical Patriarchal conditioning of “Man needs to be the sole provider of the family.”

This episode is for you if you too like Marisa wants your husband to quit his sucky job and follow his dreams and/or be a partner in your business or if you are doing that currently and wants to know all about navigating this new way of business and marriage.

Tag Marisa and Deepshikha with your favorite Insight on Instagram 

Find Marisa here - https://www.instagram.com/mtoni/

Find Deepshikha here - https://www.instagram.com/deepshikhasairam/