Based on my work with clients these are the top tips I have for working with a lawyer in family mediation, to ensure you get the most out of this relationship:
get recommendations from friends as to good experiencesmeet with lawyers to make sure you are comfortable with them and the teamensure that you are working with an experienced family lawyer and not just someone who also does family workunderstand that no lawyer will give you a guaranteebe prepared to ask lawyers for a range of outcomes - good day for you in court / bad day for you in courtbe the client! don't forget the lawyer works for you. be conscious - make sure that you are making conscious decisions about how / when to rely on the lawyersbe transparent with your lawyers so they can give you the most relevant advicebe flexible - consider bringing in the solicitors to a mediation if helpfuland most importantlybe clear about your priorities with your lawyer - what do you most need (not want) to achieve so they can target their advice