Send us a Text Message. Resentments are a killer of alcoholics.  When we have a resentment, we are replaying an old memory that may or may not be accurate.  Getting sober means finding a way to work through those emotions and the faulty way we used to perceive them.  In recovery, we have to find a way to handle the bad stuff that comes our way and do it in a way that is healthy and does not cause us to drink.  You can’t be a victim to your circumstances. 
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E68: How We Develop The Memories That Lead to Resentments

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Send us a Text Message. Our family of origin can be a cause of stress in recovery.  That's the case for me.  I've had to deal with an unexpected situation around my family of origin this week and I needed my higher power to help me through it.  I shared this stress in a way I hope helps you.  In this episode, we get vulnerable and discuss how the past can show up in the present and how to deal with it.  Steve helps me out in not developing new resentments and how to manage stressful situations with the family. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal. Support the Show. 

E182: The Family of Origin and Overcoming the Wreckage of the Past

Send us a Text Message. In this episode, we delve into the profound yet practical philosophy of “Take the Next Right Action.” This simple mantra holds a world of meaning, especially for those on the journey of recovery. It’s about the courage to confront the challenging tasks we’d rather avoid, the selfless acts of kindness that elevate others at the expense of our own comfort, and the quiet heroism in extending a hand to those who are wrestling with their own battles. For many, recovery is not just a path to personal healing, but a road paved with opportunities to make a difference in the lives of others. “Doing the next right thing” isn’t about grand gestures; it’s found in the everyday choices that, while they may seem small, create ripples of positive change. Whether it’s choosing honesty over convenience, service over self-indulgence, or hope over despair, these decisions shape the journey of recovery and reflect the heart of this podcast. Join us as we explore stories of resilience and generosity, and discuss how embracing this mindset can transform not only individual lives but also weave a tapestry of communal support and understanding. Together, we’ll learn that sometimes, the hardest choices are the most rewarding, and helping someone struggling might just be the next right thing for you. 
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E181: Taking the Next Right Action

Send us a Text Message. Relapse is common in sober communities.  Can chronic relapse be disruptive to the group?  If it is, how should it be addressed?  We talk about chronic relapsers and how their presence can actually enhance the sobriety of those who continue with their recovery journey and how they should be treated with empathy.  We discuss some who relapsed for decades, only to finally find continuous sobriety.  We also discuss how to address anyone in a recovery community who is disruptive. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal. Support the Show. 

E180: Can Chronic Relapsing Negatively Affect Others in the Sober Community?

Send us a Text Message. With summer coming up, it's a great time to talk about the third promise.  Lots from the past give us cause to pause, but we should not regret it but learn from it.  Matt and Steve talk about the past, the harms caused and how to learn from them to make sobriety even better. Do you find value in what the Sober Friends Podcast does?  Consider buying us a coffee at buymeacoffee.com/soberfriendspod.  Your donation helps us with hosting and website fees and allows up to maintain our equipment.  You keep us on the air for the new guy or gal. Support the Show. 

E179: We Will Not Regret the Past nor Wish to Shut the Door On It

Send us a Text Message. I thought everything would be perfect once we stopped drinking?  WRONG!  Life still happens.  The difference is that you don't have to drink over it and have new tools to get you through the things that happen in life.  This week, Matt had a whole bunch of things happen and I'm sure in 6 months they will be forgotten.  But today, they stink.  

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E68: How We Develop The Memories That Lead to Resentments

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