Is this a win for your child… or for you?

What does “successful parenting” really mean today? In this episode, we’re joined by Daphne Iking and Scott’s to talk about how we measure our kids’ progress, why we compare milestones (even when we don’t mean to), and how to check ourselves before our expectations take over.

Are we really supporting our kids—or just projecting? Let’s get honest about what it means to celebrate every win, big or small.Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

CHAPTERS

00:25 - Welcome Daphne!

01:50 - It’s okay to forget your kid’s ages

07:00 - The preschool guilt on moms 

08:40 - What defines “successful parenting”? 

10:20 - The education milestones

13:00 - Too early for extra tuition?

14:30 - Fair treatment between siblings 

16:30 - Forcing milestones on the eldest

22:00 - Are hand-me-downs unfair? 

25:50 - Judging childhood achievements 

28:20 - Is studying overseas the standard? 

29:30 - Academic standards on your kids 

32:30 - Comparing early childhood development 

35:30 - Placing healthy expectations

37:30 - Are iPads kids trying to bond? 

41:40 - Going against our parent’s dreams 

46:00 - Fostering values over careers

50:40 - What is a successful kid?  

54:15 - You are what you sow 

55:15 - Join us on Telegram! 

55:36 - Tutorial: How To Carry Babies

In this episode, we’re revisiting our childhood dreams and unpacking how those early ambitions shaped the dads we are today.

How do we support children’s passions while instilling resilience, strong values, and a sense of self-worth? And what happens when one day they say “Dad, I want to be an influencer?”

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

#ScottsMalaysia #CelebrateEveryWin #ScottsGummies #ScottsPastilles #ScottsMultivitamins #ScottsDHA #ScottsVitaminC

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CHAPTERS

00:30 - Hustling Our Hobbies

02:30 - Our Subang Food Tangent 

06:00 - How Becoming Ultraman Shaped Us

09:20 - Chasing Our Dreams 

20:00 - Cita-CIta School Form 

22:00 - Living Out Your Parent’s Ambitions

28:00 - Minghan’s Architecture Trauma 

30:00 - License To Pursue Your Dreams

34:30 - “Dad I want to be an influencer”

37:54 - Jobs We Disapprove Of

40:00 - Teaching Kids To Struggle 

42:00 - Logic vs. Character Building 

46:12 - Building Resilience and Trust

47:45 - How do you raise dreamers into doers?

50:30 - Tough Love vs. Holding Hands

51:55 - Putting Pressures on Hobbies

52:55 - Do Piano Classes Ruin Passions?

59:00 - Preparing Your Kid For The Future

1:07:00 - Outro! 

POV: Your kid loses a game and throws a tantrum. What now?

If we want our kids to win in life, they’ve got to learn how to lose first. In this episode, the dads dive into why saying “no” is one of the most loving things we can do—and how handling setbacks early helps build resilience, patience, and emotional strength.

Brought to you by Scott’s, we also talk about how our kids are way smarter than we think—they pick up on how we handle boundaries, failure, and those everyday “teachable moments”.

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

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#ScottsDHA #ScottsVitaminC

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CHAPTERS

00:30 - We’re out of the storeroom!

03:35 - Scolding the teacher?

04:33 - Toddlers and Tantrums 

06:00 - Do toddlers understand habits?

11:45 - Disciplining at home

14:00 - The first time kids lose

17:20 - Reasoning without saying “No”

25:10 - My way or the highway parents

31:00 - Kids understanding rules as wins

32:50 - Bedtime routine hacks

34:00 - Chou chou and blankies

37:10 - Being the Disciplining Dad

44:45 - Learning the impact of “Yes”

48:00 - Supporting their development 

50:00 - Setting an example 

52:28 - Join Our Telegram! 

52:40 - Win or Lose, celebrate your kids!

POV: You’re getting a haircut with the guys (seriously)

In this episode, we’re kicking off this fresh new season with a fresh new fade! Join us as we catch up with the dads on where they’ve all been during our break, their 2025 goals as dads, and how they might start selling their cars to afford preschool. 

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

CHAPTERS

00:35 - Shoutout to The Oven Cuttery

02:25 - HOW DO YALL AFFORD PRESCHOOL??

12:00 - The school culture shock 

13:50 - Baby Z is a baby no more!

16:10 - Having a son is going into a battlefield

18:58 - Being hungover on the slides

20:18 - Singapore’s National Language 

24:00 - Our Q1 Wrap Up 

24:20 - HYROX and REDLINE

27:30 - Doing sports for the aesthetic 

35:00 - Hot men are never funny 

39:30 - I’ve watched you since I was 7

42:00 - Navigating Sunway Pyramid 

43:20 - Our goals for 2025

43:43 - Making a father’s day event? 

45:55 - Get Minghan to 1 Mil NOW

46:50 - Redefining success 

49:20 - Getting over hospital anxiety

50:45 - Getting up for school 

52:52 - Living in our honeymoon era 

54:45 - Just calling out Minghan 

58:00 - Learning to be understanding 

1:00:00 - IS DENNIS HAVING A 2ND??

1:05:21 - Becoming that inner voice

1:11:28 - See yall in the next one!Join Our Telegram Community! https://t.me/hyddannouncements ____Welcome to How You Do Dad, a podcast hosted by Minghan, Dennis and Jon as they take on the wild journey of being the asian dad in this new era.____NEW PODCAST EPISODES BIWEEKLY ON MONDAYS AT 11AM!____Follow The Takeaway Table!https://www.instagram.com/thetakeawaytable/ Follow Ming Han!https://www.instagram.com/dmingthing/ Follow Dennis!https://www.instagram.com/dennisyin/Follow Jon!https://www.instagram.com/jonchuajx/

In this special episode, we answer your burning questions, dive into what we really think about your comments, and reflect on the journey so far.

Tune in for a candid look back at the season—what we’ve learned, where we grew, and how we’ll do dad better next time.

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

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CHAPTERS

00:00 - We’re barely hanging on 

00:50 - Jon is now Mr Worldwide 

01:55 - Why was Baby Z upset to see Jon?

04:20 - End of the year illnesses

06:20 - Dennis LOST his luggage?

08:00 - Ranking our favourite airlines

10:00 - Dennis is tickled

11:45 - Our thoughts on the BURO article

13:00 - Our babies have grown up!!

15:25 - Reviewing our TOP EPISODE!

17:22 - Husbands Vs. Wives

18:50 - Our show helps you rizz girls??

20:45 - We’re scared to make a mom show 

21:45 - Jon’s PS5 part 2 rant 

25:40 - Our baby luggage hack 

27:00 - Comparing our comments on Reels & TikTok

31:45 - Creating our own WWE Dads event 

34:30 - Why did you decide to have kids?

37:20 - Defining Unsexy Guys  

38:30 - Mamma Mia Pregnancies 

41:40 - Do we lose friends as dads?  

43:50 - Bedroom intimacy after kids

48:00 - Who’s the priority during birth? 

49:40 - How do you know if she’s “The One”? 

55:50 - Biggest lesson as “just a guy”

57:00 - Dennis is selling all his cars 

58:40 - Learning to mourn with friends

1:00:00 - Biggest lesson as a husband 

1:01:40 - Learning to be the family leader 

1:04:30 - Biggest lesson as a father 

1:04:50 - Talking to my kid like an adult

1:05:25 - Dealing with tantrums 

1:08:40 - JOIN OUR TELEGRAM! 

What do dads invest in?

On this episode, we’re picking Iherng’s brain on all things investing. From his most recent (and surprising) venture to his biggest failures and the lessons they taught him, we’ll also dive into the ever-present balancing act of building a future while living in the moment with family. 

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

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CHAPTERS

01:00 - Meet Podcast A Lister Iherng

03:30 - Answering Your Comments 

05:10 - The Currency of Time  

09:00 - Building hurdles for our spendings 

10:00 - Wife monthly allowances?

16:15 - The 3 skills of money 

16:38 - Iherng’s morning routine is buying houses

20.00 - The freedom to buy the wrong shoe sizes 

24:00 - Carrying “Healthy Debt” 

24:44 - The Worst Investment We Made 

26:25 - The reality of living with debt 

31:55 - Roasting our hobby buys 

36:00 - Is there a right time to invest?

37:40 - Nobody wants to work these days 

38:20 - Risk appetites after kids 

40:00 - How an (almost) billionaire buys coffee

41:15 - Roasting Dennis’ car buys 

42:13 - Should you forgo your financial plan?

47:00 - Going in debt from birthdays 

50:00 - It’s easier to save everything than on nothing 

51:22 - The Tabung Habit  

53:10 - How we started saving money 

54:20 - The Positive Poverty Mindset

59:00 - Iherng’s guilty pleasure is… working??

1:02:05 - Sacrificing family time for work?

1:07:20 - Maybank Shoutout - Fortune favours the brave

1:08:20 - Iherng goes to the bank when he’s bored. 

1:09:00 - DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH (but here’s our thoughts)

1:10:00 - Fixed Deposit hacks

1:12:15 - Iherng is a yapper

1:13:17 - Our final notes! 

ARE GENDER ROLES OUTDATED? FT. ALL THE WIVES, with Dyson

*DESCRIPTION:*

You asked (many, many times), and we finally delivered—this is the ultimate takeover!

For the first time ever, ALL the wives—Suyen, Amanda, and Jazel—are here to keep the dads in check.

Who should do the cleaning? Are traditional gender roles outdated? Together with Dyson, we’re debating it all. 

Welcome to the ultimate husbands vs. wives showdown. 

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

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CHAPTERS

00:28 - TEAM JON & AMANDA 

01:05 - TEAM MING & SUYEN 

01:27 - TEAM DENNIS & JAZEL 

02:00 - The wives are here, but no pressure…

02:50 - Why we changed our set (xiexie Dyson)

04:20 - THE WIVES UPRISING 

05:50 - Addressing your comments

06:00 - Gatekeeping our confinement lady 

07:00 - DON’T ask if someone is pregnant 

09:10 - Your T20 hospital bills

14:00 - Why do you watch the daddy podcast??

17:30 - Don’t come for Amanda’s man!!

19:00 - Minghan’s mandatory egg appreciation story 

20:45 - Our thoughts on gender norms 

21:15 - People want to marry rocks?

23:50 - Policing moms on social media 

30:00 - Leaving your career in the backseat 

37:50 - The guilt of not being home 

54:33 - House chores are a constant negotiation

1:01:28 - Yes, we’re arguing about laundry

1:07:40 - “Hey don’t do it like that”

1:15:20 - Confronting your partner’s habits 

1:18:00 - Making love not war (at home) 

1:22:15 - Getting a Dyson to play mind games

1:26:35 - Does expenses equal quality?

1:31:35 - Sunning our beds and having sinus 

1:36:40 - Husbands VS. Wives Showdown 

1:42:30 - Husband digs himself into hole (real?)

1:43:35 - Remarrying after your spouse passes?

1:51:22 - Join our statistic, we’re testing something.

1:53:00 - Airing your partner’s dirty laundry 

1:55:00 - Arguing infant of your kids 

2:02:15 - Posting your kids online

2:03:45 - Breaking the generational curse 

2:06:34 - Redefining “Asian Love” 

2:12:42 - Asking “Are you happy?” in marriage 

2:16:35 - Envying Angmo girl-dad relationships

2:18:30 - Secure your Christmas gifts!

We make fun of Jon a lot, but what do we really think about life in Singapore? 

From uprooting families to deciding where we’d want our kids to grow up, we’re tackling the real ups and downs of dual-city living and what happens when family life splits into two countries. 

With by special guest Amanda (Jon’s wife) and Maybank, we dive into the big question: is it actually better to “earn SG, live KL”?

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

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CHAPTERS

05:40 - The Exhaustion of Hopping Between SG to KL

08:08 - SG Public Transport Hits Different

13:58 - Some Rules Don’t Make Logical Sense

19:10 - Why Are You Driving Slow In Rush Hour????

20:00 - KL People Are More Forgiving 

21:30 - We Pray To The Bell Curve God 

24:15 - Jon Can’t Let Go Of Our Accent 

26:40 - Minghan Flexing His Highschool Grades

27:50 - How To Trigger Malaysians

28:40 - Should My Kid Grow Up In SG or MY? 

32:00 - Choosing To Go Through National Service 

33:20 - The Privilege To Choose 

35:45 - “Even if I’m tired I can still drive home”

37:25 - Training Your Kid’s To Trust Themselves

38:00 - The reality of becoming boomers

40:50 - Managing Finances Between SG-MY

43:00 - New Gen Kid’s Don’t See Physical Money 

46:57 - Reading Your SG Comments…

47:23 - Pronouncing Genting as JENTING

48:25 - Would You Give Up MY Food For SG Pay?

49:35 - Malaysian Food Isn’t Even That Great 

52:10 - KL People Are Traumatised By Jam

53:31 - Trauma Bonding In SG

56:10 - Are Malaysians Hardworking?

58:20 - We’re Scared Of PoPos

01:04:40 - I Don’t Need Lifelong Learning 

01:08:20 - Join Our Telegram!

Baby products. What are they, what do they do, and need to spend all this money meh?
This is the episode you send to the clueless husband.
Together with SupermamaLab, we’re laying out everything you need to know about keeping the baby alive. Don’t know where to start? Don’t worry, we gotchu covered.
Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.
For more information, reach out to @supermamalab on Instagram!

GIVEAWAY
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From October 28th to November 4th, stand a chance to win some of these special prizes from @supermamalab: 
 1. Airpury Portable Air Purifier
 2. Insulated Cooler Bag
 3. Portable Baby Brush Set 

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CHAPTERS

00:34 - The Episode You Send To The Clueless Husband

01:40 - The First Baby Shopping Trip

03:30 - Jon Joined Home Economics For The Ladies

04:38 - The Clueless Dad: A Walkthrough 

05:40 - What’s A Breast Pump? 

09:25 - Hiring A Lactation Consultant 

11:30 - Balance Between Product & Services

14:45 - The First Duct Block 

17:00 - Cleaning Your Baby Bottles

19:46 - What’s The Point Of Sterilising???

21:55 - Let Them Lick Windows 

22:00 - When Do You Weening Babies Off

25:00 - DRIED FRUITS IN THE STERILISER?? 

27:55 - Dennis Becomes A Salesperson 

28:10 - Defrosting Milk Is As Bad As Defrosting Chicken 

35:28 - Don’t Have Alien Head Babies 

39:50 - Ignoring Our Parent’s Advice  

42:57 - Our Porridge Trauma 

51:58 - Our Essentials 

56:00 - Join Our Telegram Giveaway!

57:55 - The Closing Advice

How do you approach managing household finances—especially with your spouse?

This episode, we team up with Maybank to dive into the often tricky conversations around family finances. We’ll explore how to balance transparency in spending, saving, and decision-making with your partner, as well as how to handle the  financial speed-bumps that come with raising kids.

Join us as we learn from mistakes and figure out this thing called daddyhood.

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CHAPTERS

00:18 - Dennis Overcame His Subang Boy Lateness

01:00 - Suyen Is Here!!

03:12 - Should Men Pay For Meals?

03:37 - Jon Only Dated Rich Girls 

04:11 - Singapore Boys Have Awkward Dating Problems 

06:44 - Earning Dancer Money 

08:08 - This Show Is Digging Jon Into A Hole

09:35 - What is a DINK?

10:50 - It’s Nicer For Girls To Offer Paying

12:40 - Dividing The Finances At Home 

14:25 - We’re Not Spreadsheet People

17:00 - Having Conversations About Money 

18:20 - We Didn’t Know About Each Other’s Savings

21:00 - Transitioning From Being a DINK To Dad

22:50 - Creating The Joint Savings Account 

24:13 - “I build the castle, she runs the castle” 

24:45 - The Fear Of Talking About Finances

29:00 - Dennis Never Checked His Expenses Until…

31:20 - The First Time Seeing The Consequences Of Your Actions

31:44 - Someone Keeps Hacking Jon’s Playstation 

37:00 - Dennis’ Broke Mentality

39:50 - Managing Multiple Currencies 

42:15 - Budgeting For Kids 

45:00 - Suyen Sets The Household’s Monthly KPI

49:25 - Sharing Money Troubles With Your Wife 

52:30 - The Guilt Of Spending Money As A Stay-At-Home Mom

53:17 - Providing Stay-At-Home Wife Allowances?