Intelligent Intoxication

How You May Be Playing the Victim


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The “Drama Triangle” is a model created by Dr. Stephen Karpman used to describe the ROLES we unconsciously play in our relationships. We may PLAY THE PART of a:
 
VICTIM
RESCUER
PERSECUTOR
 
If you are in the habit of “playing the Victim”, you might be:
 
"super-sensitive"
need "kid-glove" treatment
seeking attention 
refusing to take accountability or responsibility
clinging to a rescuer for your "unsolvable problem"
resisting helping yourself
blaming circumstances or others
complaining constantly
refusing to make decisions/solve problems
avoiding professional help
dependent on others
always overwhelmed and unable to manage
full of self-pity
recruiting an audience for your drama
Ignoring your own mistakes/faults
What BENEFITS do you get from “playing the Victim” in your relationships?
What is “playing the Victim” costing you?
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