A struggle for many of us - but especially ennea-type 3’s - is with being deceitful. Yes, there is a type of deceitfulness where we are all quite aware that we are deliberately not telling or living the “truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth”, but the type of deceit we are speaking of here is actually deeper and is hidden from our consciousness, often until we are ‘shocked’ into an awareness of it. And for most personality style 3’s the deceit is fundamentally one of fooling themselves about their deep need to appear to be the best at whatever they do, to be the achiever/performer par excellence in order to believe they have value and are worthy of true love And 3’s can often keep this pattern going for many years, all the while damaging their physical, emotional, relational and spiritual health. Listen in as John Steakley, founder of the non-profit Unbound Grace, shares what shocked him into an awareness of just how deeply and dangerously the deceit dynamic was running the show in his life and his gift of getting caught.