How’s Your Sex Life?

Should I tell my friend I have feelings for them? Do I tell the guy I’m seeing that I had an OnlyFans? Is it time to leave my relationship?

Jordan Gonsalves hosts But We Loved, a podcast that dives into queer history through conversations with LGBTQ+ elders. Jordan joins Myisha to talk about crushes on friends and toxic relationships. Plus, Jordan shares his dating horror story.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Jordan: @jor_gonsalves

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

I love kinky sex, but I need a break! Is faking an orgasm evil or generous? How do I get my libido back? 

Author Brontez Purnell writes about sex and queerness. His book ‘100 Boyfriends’ was awarded the 2022 Lambda Literary Award in Gay Fiction. Brontez joins Myisha to talk kinky sex in midlife and if it’s ever okay to fake an orgasm. Plus, Brontez shares what he doesn’t tolerate in relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

Why can’t people accept that you can be romantic and casual? I adore my partner, but our bedroom is dead… help! Should I tell my crush I like them or play it cool?  

Dylan McKeever uses humor to talk about trans identity and queerness in her work. She joins Myisha to talk situationships and why non-monogamy isn’t for everyone. Plus, Dylan shares the best lesson she’s learned in relationships.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Dylan: @deemakes

For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

My ex-friend is hooking up with my brother-in-law! Will I regret having sex with only one person my whole life? Is it okay to get back in touch with an old flame?

Matteo Lane and Nick Smith are comedians, frenemies, and hosts of the I Never Liked You Podcast. They join Myisha to talk about redefining monogamy and revisiting an old hookup. Plus, Matteo and Nick share their funniest sex mishaps. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Matteo: @matteolane

Follow Nick: @nicksmith09

Check out I Never Liked You on your favorite podcast app! 

For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife 

I’m sick of dating apps but it’s hard to meet people in person! How do I talk to my partner about his porn habits without sounding like a prude? And when do I pose the infamous: ‘what are we?’ 

Tomás Mier, Rolling Stone journalist and pop culture content creator, talks Only Fans and queer dating with Myisha. Plus, he shares his own dating standards including when to bring a partner to family dinner. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Tomás: @tomas_mier

For a transcript of this episode visit kcrw.com/sexlife

I’m new to dating other women! Is it ok to look for traits my ex had in future partners? How do I deal with an ex who keeps sending me mixed signals?   

Amber Whittington, aka AmbersCloset, is a content creator and LGBTQ+ activist. This week, she joins Myisha to talk about being true to yourself as a baby gay. Plus, Amber shares how an ex helped her through her grief.   

Read the full transcript kcrw.com/sexlife 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Amber: @amberscloset

Is my sex vanilla just because I don’t want a threesome? My ‘no strings attached’ sex life is not as fulfilling as I thought. I don’t want to be a sex doll! How do I navigate external validation and what I really want?

Tracy Clark-Flory explores desire in her book Want Me and weekly newsletter. This week, she joins Myisha in tackling personal versus external desires. Plus, Tracy gives advice to her younger self. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Tracy: @tracyclarkflory

Read the full transcript on our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

I don’t see my friends unless I organize the hangout and I’m over it! How can I rebuild my connection to my long-distance bestie? My friend thinks I betrayed them, help! 

This week we’re answering your friendship dilemmas with Ann Friedman, co-author of Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close. Plus, Ann shares ways to support your friends who are in lousy relationships. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

Author and activist Virgie Tovar is back with her own questions about sex dreams, perimenopause, and masturbating in the sun. Plus, Virgie shares how she got over her sexual hang ups.

Visit the podcast feed for part one of our conversation with Virgie about dating cis men, fatphobia, and unrequited crushes. 

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

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Follow Virgie Tovar: @virgietovar

For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife

How do I get over someone I never dated? I date cis men and fatphobia is our unwelcome third wheel. 

Virgie Tovar (author, activist, and weight-based discrimination expert) gives advice in the first of this two part episode! We talk about the pain of unrequited crushes and setting boundaries as a plus-size dater.

Need sex or relationship advice? Drop Myisha an email or voice memo at [email protected]. We might answer your question in a future episode.

Follow Myisha: @myishabattle
Follow Virgie Tovar: @virgietovar

For a transcript of this episode visit our website: kcrw.com/sexlife