For some reason we were taught from a young age that we know how to date, how to pick a partner, and how to have a healthy and sustainable love life. By reproducing these beliefs, we constantly make mistakes, get frustrated and, eventually, give up on love. The same way we need support from a coach or mentor who knows more business or fitness, we should also ask for help when the topic is the heart, right?

In this episode of Hidden Potential Podcast, Sarah welcomes Bela Gandhi. Bela is a personal dating coach whose mission is to help people make dating a fun, joyful, and safe activity. Today, Bela highlights that we can actually change the type of person we usually get attracted to and that we have the power to choose the ideal type – based on past experiences. Ultimately, we attract into our universe only who we accept.

“This should take time. Dating is a marathon, it’s not a sprint.” – Bela Gandhi

Key Timestamps

[1:18] – Round of personal questions;

[6:00] – Looking for meaning amidst tough situations is the answer;

[9:04] – How Bela started her career focused on relationships and love;

[11:16] – How Bela was able to construct a connection with her husband;

[14:27] – Understand Bela’s work (personal training for your love life);

[15:58] – A common theme/mistake that clients bring to Bela;

[19:44] – Why we were thought we know how to date;

[22:21] – ‘The Bad Picker’: how to stop attracting the wrong people;

[25:34] – How to choose and change who you’re attracted to;

[30:11] – It’s important to identify bad patterns when dating;

[33:10] – Tools and strategies for online dating;

[38:30] – What are the next steps after meeting someone online?

[40:07] – When is the best moment to have a first sexual encounter?

[45:03] – The effect of masculine/feminine energy on dating;

[49:57] – Try out different things before picking one;

[51:09] – Bela’s final message;

About Bela Gandhi

Bela Gandhi is a personal dating coach. Working with hundreds of clients, Bela is always focusing on the idea of building a new process that helps people find love – with no suffering and in an effortless way. The company she works with, Smart Dating Academy, is expert on creating true connections and assisting on love stories.

Connect with Bela Gandhi

Instagram: @smartdatingacademy

Podcast: Smart Dating Academy – The Podcast

Website: www.smartdatingacademy.com

Connect with Sarah!

Instagram: @saffarisarah

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