Remembering and consistently thinking back to our core truths will help guide us through the muck, hurt, chaos, and pain to make lasting change for the highest good of all involved. Remember the truth no matter what information overload is thrown your way.
Here are some core truths to hold onto during this time to cut through the chaos and keep your eye on the goal:
-Black lives matter.
-One life lost is one too many.
-Only what you give power has power.
-Change starts with you, on the inside, regardless of the external.
-In a system, change also starts on the inside.
As white people, we can choose to be allies, secure in knowing that we can fight racism without knowing what it’s like to be black, but knowing what it’s like to be human. We can be secure in knowing that we were born into a society that promotes certain ways of being, but that we can recognize when that way of being is wrong and change it. We do this by listening and paying attention.
And, while the change starts inside of each one of us, the goal is not about us as allies. It’s about our fellow black humans.
We can recognize what racism is, what whiteness is, and we can be self aware to know when the impacts and effects of each are intruding in the way we do things. We’ve been living our entire lives through a legacy left by those before us, not recognizing our own roles in perpetuating that gruesome legacy. Even if we’re not directly the white people who created systemic racism, we can stop it.