Emotional intelligence

Neglect & Trauma

Not courageous enough to voice an opinion.

Never wants the spotlight on him/her.

Finds it difficult to trust

Inferiority complex

Too nice and too kind as these children are groomed to EARN love.

Only love bombers qualify as life time partners AND friends.

May not be obsessive / controlling / or seek independence from abusive parents

Hates unfairness and injustice. Will stand up to defend others.

Value Trust / Loyalty

Ingrained fear of abandonment.

Feels- we’re unloved. By parents / caregiver

May be insanely hard workers. They have been groomed from young to excel in everything.

Scapegoated by too many people.

Once healed Seeks depth in relationships./ most importantly faithful

Un healed May turn out to become highly narcissistic too if there is no strong moral compass in this child.

Unless aware may easily remain the slave for the narcissist forever.

May not bother them that they are completely independent from their parents. Seems like they allow their parents to control their lives.

Speaking about someone in their life, most probably a parent like an idol. / partners

They live in denial of the truth as not willing to face the real and hard truth