Podcast 14: human doing vs human being

ACIM lesson 13 “a meaningless world engenders fear”

We have spent our whole lives ascribing meaning to anything and if we don’t know we feel fearful and ignorant. We are learing to step back and not give meaning to everything.

Story about Lili and upset around not doing or being smart enough.

But being a human being doesn’t mean that they don’t accomplish anything. To the contrary, human beings can be very successful, but unlike human doings, they can experience meaning, satisfaction, and joy in their achievements because they aren’t driven by need, but rather by their values and life priorities. In other words, human beings’ achievement efforts are an affirming expression of who they are. So, not only can human beings be successful, but just as importantly, they can be happy:

1) Change what you consider the level of success. Is it gaged on how much joy and peace you feel and how you treat other people vs how much you achieve. Expend energy and gain success at pursuing what you love with satisfaction from the pursuit of creative adventures and helping others.

2) Accept your humanity: no one is perfect: failure loses its power to harm your self esteem. No threat of self esteem because there is no perfectionism. You cannot fail at being.

3) Less doing and more being! Reduce your to do list.

4) Go with the flow and break out of rigidity

5) Have more fun-stop being so serious

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