Humans in Love ft. Zachary Stockill

In today’s episode of Humans in Love Podcast, I’m joined once again by author and psychologist Dr. Shawn T. Smith.

Dr. Smith is the author of The Tactical Guide To Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Marriage and Dating, and The Women’s Guide to How Men Think: Love, Commitment, and the Male Mind.

Dr. Smith and I discussed modern marriage, making the decision to marry, the various issues facing men in the 21st century, the “Red Pill,” “toxic masculinity,” and much more.

Hope you dig.

Learn more about Dr. Shawn T. Smith at:

* His personal website* Twitter

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In today’s episode of Humans in Love, I spoke with Jennifer Lehr, a writer, couples therapist, and the founder of WeConcile.

Jennifer created WeConcile to help couples get free from pain and disconnection, and to again find happiness in marriage.

She spent years working on her own issues, educating herself as well as studying and training as a couples therapist and working with couples.

We spoke about couples therapy, conflict resolution, social media, and how any couple can build a stronger, healthier relationship. Hope you dig.

Learn more about Jennifer at:

* Her personal website

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In today’s episode of Humans in Love podcast, I pose the question: “what is polyamory?”

I spoke with polyamory researcher Dr. Elisabeth Sheff about polyamory, what is polyamory, the challenges and advantages of polyamorous relationships, raising children in polyamorous homes, overcoming jealousy, relationship anarchy (!) and more.

Hope you dig.

Learn more about Dr. Sheff at:

* Her personal website* The Bonding Project

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Happy New Year! It’s episode 50 (!) of Humans in Love!

I hope you’re as excited to start 2021 as I am.

In what I’m sure will be a controversial episode of Humans in Love podcast, I was joined once again by author and speaker Caleb Jones to reflect on the lessons of 2020, open marriages, relationship management, “rational selfishness,” “winning the war and not the battle” in relationships, outcome independence, what love is (and isn’t), and much more.

Hope you dig.

Learn more about Caleb at:

* His personal website* Learn more about Caleb’s Open Marriage Manual book (affiliate link) * Caleb’s Superior Man Inner Circle (affiliate link)* Caleb’s main book, The Unchained Man (affiliate link)* Caleb’s Ultimate Online Dating Manual (affiliate link)

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Mark Walsh is a popular YouTuber, and the co-founder of the Embodiment Conference and the Embodied Facilitator Course.

Mark offers embodied approaches to life coaching, leadership, business training, stress management, communication, activism and “body-mind stuff more generally – martial arts, yoga, meditation, bodywork, dance, etc.”

Mark’s charisma and passion for embodiment practices shines through every one of his YouTube videos, as well as our conversation for this podcast.

But what is embodiment? And why does it matter?

In today’s episode of Humans in Love Mark Walsh and I discuss Russian culture, embodiment practices, embodiment in dating and relationships, embodiment in the time of coronavirus, jealousy and embodiment, the upcoming Embodiment Conference, and much more.

Hope you dig.

Connect with Mark at:

* His personal website* The Embodiment Conference

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Cadell Last is an author and YouTuber with a focus on philosophy and anthropology.

Cadell Last and I first met around 10 years ago when we were students in History at McMaster University in Hamilton, Canada. I was in graduate school, and Cadell was an undergrad taking a graduate level course–and he was still one of the smartest, most eloquent students in the room.

His new book is called Sex, Masculinity, God, featuring “new ideas about the nature of sexuality, the evolutionary role of masculine form, and the meaning of the transcendental.”

In today’s episode of Humans in Love, Cadell and I talk about the perils of ideology, the current corona-madness, uncertainty, the crisis of modern masculinity, the problem with academics, sexual jealousy, and more.

Really enjoyed this one. Hope you do, too.

Connect with Cadell Last at:

* His personal website

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Dr. Michael Pariser is an American psychotherapist and psychoanalyst specializing in men’s issues.

Michael Pariser is the author of the recently released companion guide to No More Mr. Nice Guy by friend-of-the-podcast Robert Glover, No More Mr. Nice Guy: The Hero’s Journey.

From Amazon:

This guide, both a companion to Dr. Robert Glover’s No More Mr. Nice Guy and a stand-alone manual, takes the reader on a step-by-step journey of masculine self-discovery. It provides a practical and emotional understanding of the problems that many Nice Guys face, and it lays out a series of easy-to-follow exercises for overcoming those issues. By the end of the journey, the you will have the tools to help you pursue your goals with passion and courage, develop more rewarding relationships, enhance your sex life, embrace your masculinity, and ultimately, live a fuller, richer, happier life.Utilizing the fundamental ideas of No More Mr. Nice Guy, this guide adds additional insight and a chapter-by-chapter series of structured exercises to help you move from frustrated Nice Guy to powerful and confident Integrated Male. As you take your own personal Hero’s Journey, you will be learning skills essential for creating a better life:

In today’s episode of Humans in Love, Dr. Michael Pariser and I had a wonderful conversation about living on a boat, surviving and thriving through a global pandemic, overcoming depression, working through “Nice Guy Syndrome,” the hero’s journey, how men can build happier, healthier relationships, and much more.

Hope you dig.

Connect with Dr. Michael Pariser at:

* His personal website

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In today’s episode of Humans in Love, I’m joined by New York City sex therapist Stephen Snyder MD.

Dr. Stephen Snyder is the author of the award-winning book, Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship.

Love Worth Making is one of the finest books I’ve read about long-term relationships in recent years.

From Amazon:

Can sex survive monogamy? Yes, once you understand how sexual emotions really work.

This award-winning, paradigm-shifting guide turns traditional sex therapy inside-out to reveal the hidden rules for great sex. Gentle, compassionate, and filled with compelling stories from Dr. Stephen Snyder’s thirty years as a sex therapist working with over 1,500 individuals and couples, Love Worth Making is essential reading for anyone hoping to keep sexual inspiration alive in a committed relationship.

On reading Love Worth Making, I knew I had to talk to the author. And Dr. Stephen Snyder graciously agreed. Ah, the joys of podcasting…

In today’s episode of Humans in Love, Dr. Stephen Snyder and I discuss the differences between men and women, how to have ridiculously great sex in a long-term relationship, how to keep passion alive, what (most) women really want in bed, pornography, hookup culture, what it’s like spending 30 years as a sex therapist, and much more.

This one was a lot of fun, and I hope to have Dr. Snyder back on the podcast in the future. Hope you dig.

Connect with Dr. Snyder at:

* His personal website

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In today’s episode of Humans in Love, I’m joined once again by the author of No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Robert Glover.

Dr. Robert Glover has become one of my favourite people to talk to for my podcast. You may have heard him before on episodes 17 and 29.

In Dr. Glover’s third appearance on Humans in Love, we discuss the coronavirus, love under lockdown, “choosing our neuroses over love,” building better relationships, surviving breakups, “being a good ender,” pacing in relationships, dealing with sexual polarity, psychedelics, God, and much more.

As you can read, we cover a lot of ground in this one. Hope you dig.

Today’s episode of Humans in Love is brought to you by my latest book: The Breakup Recovery Workbook: Daily Writing Exercises for Surviving (and Eventually Thriving) Through the End of a Relationship, available for Kindle and paperback via Amazon.

Connect with Dr. Glover on:

* His personal website

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In today’s episode of Humans in Love, I’m joined by returning guests Uriel Yariv and Blandine Wegener from Mahasiddha Yoga, Thailand.

Uriel and Blandine are Tantra yoga teachers and psychologists, and two of the most insightful people I know when it comes to maintaining passion in long-term relationships.

You might remember Uriel from episode 14, and Blandine from episodes 20, 33, and 34.

For today’s episode, the title of my podcast has never been more appropriate for my guests–Uriel and Blandine truly are two humans in love.

In today’s episode of Humans in Love, Uriel, Blandine, and I connected on Zoom to talk about how they’ve dealt with the pandemic, the challenges facing couples in lockdown, maintaining passion in long-term relationships, the difference between “conscious” and unconscious conflict, how to overcome the pain of a breakup, and much more.

Hope you dig.

Today’s episode of Humans in Love is brought to you by my new book: The Breakup Recovery Workbook: Daily Writing Exercises for Surviving (and Eventually Thriving) Through the End of a Relationship, available for Kindle and paperback via Amazon.

Connect with Uriel and Blandine at:

* Tantra Yoga Thailand

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