Why is Sexuality still such a Taboo?

Of course, the taboo makes it even more exciting and creates such a huge wanting – so huge, that our children start to look at porn at the age of 8-10 years old.

From my own experience and research, this taboo of sexuality, the ability to talk openly about it, together with an suppressed Eros in relationships due to jealousy avoidance…

…leads to so much confusion, so much pain and hurt. Too often sex becomes  a desperate and often clumsy, helpless search to relate, to be one with the other, to fill the loneliness and overcome the separation in one self.

Often it leads to use sex for getting out stress, anger or frustration or just stored hyperactivity, searching for the “orgasm” which brings a moment of relaxation and calmness.

But sex is not for getting rid of our stress!

Also sex is often too short lived for women when men - according to statistics - are done between 2-5minutes. And where does that leave women?

Fulfilling sex nourishes love and increases vitality.

We actually can make love in another way! 

A way which is so much more fulfilling, which leaves you with an energy for days and days and days and the love making can last for hours even days. In these hours, real magic happens, MAGIC of healing, MAGIC of deepening of the relating, and the MAGIC of Oneness.