While still trapped in my narcissistic abusive marriage I started to become aware of what being treated with respect from other men was. I truly believe God placed these men in my life to show me that men can be kind, genuine and respectful. One day I was shocked at the kindness a male friend showed me. I was telling God it blew me away. Gods gentle voice spoke this to me, "Why does it shock you when you are treated kindly, but you are very willing to accept when they disrespect you and mistreat you?" God stumped me...my way of thinking was so wrong! God is working on healing that in me now. I am free of my marriage and all the abuse and games played. God is showing me my value. Not my value in other men. My boundaries are much stronger now. I'm not willing to tolerate anything less than being respected, cherished and just simply being treated like a human being. For those of us who have been abused and conditioned to always think we aren't worth it and we don't deserve it and if we don't get it, it's our faults.....Then it is a very big step to finally see our worth and stand up for ourselves. May this segment help you in some small way to show you your worth and for you to start protecting YOU!