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HI, welcome to Episode The Eighty-Fifth
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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In this episode, a father and daughter tackle the sensitive topic of bad grades and how parents can address them without damaging a child’s self-esteem. They emphasize that grades are often an indicator of underlying issues—ranging from mental health and stress to poor teaching or learning disorders—and argue that a child’s worth should never be tied to an arbitrary number.

The duo offers practical advice on collaborative communication, highlighting the importance of truly listening and why staying calm is far more effective than reacting with anger. To conclude, they dive into a thought-provoking “Internet Weirdness” segment: “Why are adults so stupid?” They explore the world through a child’s eyes, discussing adult hypocrisy and the confusing nature of global conflicts and environmental choices.

(0:00) On the importance of finding out why a kids grades are bad.

(19:48) What kids ask: Why are adults so stupid?

“Political language — and with variations this is true of all political parties, from Conservatives to Anarchists — is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind.”
George Orwell

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HI, welcome to Episode The Eighty-Fourth
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

We hope you find something of value here.

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In this episode, a father and daughter explore the emotional weight of not fitting in and how parents can help children navigate the feeling of being an outsider. They discuss the vital distinction between “fitting in”—changing yourself for others—and belonging, which means finding a “tribe” that accepts your authentic self.

The conversation also examines how social media exacerbates self-comparison and why building confidence is the best defense against being defined by external standards. To wrap up, they dive into why adults are often condescending to kids and the importance of treating children with genuine respect to foster their self-worth.

(0:00) Do you really need to fit in?

(22:13) What kids ask: Why are adults so condescending?

“ I live in my dreams — that’s what you sense. Other people live in dreams, but not in their own. That’s the difference. “
Hermann Hesse

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HI, welcome to Episode The Eighty-Third
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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In this episode, a father and daughter tackle the persistent issue of bullying and how to guide children through it. They explore the psychology of bullies—noting that their behavior often stems from fear and weakness—and discuss the importance of building confidence and self-defense skills (like jiu-jitsu) to prevent a "victim" mindset. From debating why telling a teacher can sometimes make the situation worse to navigating the complexities of cyberbullying, the duo offers honest advice on standing up for yourself and supporting others. The conversation concludes with a humorous look at "Internet Weirdness" regarding "Disney adults" and the mystery of why some grown-ups remain obsessed with the Magic Kingdom

(0:00) Discussing the scourge of bullying.

(25:40) Goofy consideration for the week: Why are some adults so obsessed with Disney?

“Treat people as if they were what they ought to be and you help them to become what they are capable of being.”
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

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HI, welcome to Episode The Eighty-Second
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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In this episode, a father and daughter tackle the complexities of anxiety and how to talk to kids about it without them "shutting out". They share practical coping strategies for mental health—such as box breathing, sensory grounding, and exercise—while examining the negative impact of social media and "influencer" culture on self-esteem. From personal stories about overcoming panic attacks to a curious look at the "internet weirdness" of why we have two eyes but see one thing, this episode provides a supportive guide for navigating family mental health

(0:00) On the importance of addressing anxiety

(20:40) Question for family discussion: Why do I have two eyes if I only see one thing?

“Science cannot solve the ultimate mystery of nature. And that is because, in the last analysis, we ourselves are part of nature and therefore part of the mystery that we are trying to solve.” Max Planck

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HI, welcome to Episode The Eighty-First
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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In this episode, a father and daughter dive into the complexities of friendship conflicts and how to navigate a fallout. They share practical advice on resolving boundary crossing, the unique drama of "trio" friendships, and navigating communication gaps in the digital age. From determining when a relationship is worth saving to a consideration of the internet’s oddest parenting questions—specifically kids getting stuck in washing machines—this episode offers a raw and funny look at social dynamics.

(0:00) Discussing the intricacies of navigating conflict in friendship.

(20:09) Question for family discussion: How often will my kid get stuck in the washing machine?

“ You have to be wise enough to know when you are living in your dream, and you have to be humble enough to accept when you are in someone else’s. “
Dave Chappelle

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HI, welcome to Episode The Eightieth
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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In this episode, a father and daughter explore the raw reality of divorce and its profound impact on sibling relationships and family dynamics. They discuss the immense pressure children feel to "choose" between parents, the importance of reassuring kids that a split is not their fault, and why it is never a child's job to manage their parents' happiness.

The conversation also tackles the myths of "two Christmases" and concludes with a powerful call for including divorce education in schools to help children navigate changing family units without stigma.

(0:00) Looking at the impact of divorce on the family in general and siblings in particular.

(22:45) Question for family discussion: Should the many ways that families morph and change over time be a part of the education system?

“I have always thought the actions of men the best interpreters of their thoughts.”
John Locke

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HI, welcome to Episode The Seventy-Ninth
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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In this episode, a father and daughter discuss two of life's "huge mountains": opening up about personal struggles and navigating the loss of a pet. They share practical advice for kids on how to tell parents they are struggling without causing panic, emphasizing the need for directness and active listening.

The conversation also covers the "first brush with death" most children face through pet loss, offering strategies like honesty and healing ceremonies to help process grief. It's a candid look at building family trust through patience and vulnerability.

(0:00) In the vast emptiness of space, there are voids

(13:31) Discussing the awesomeness of Mexico as a place to live

(20:09) An accidental consideration of Scientology

“And there I got my hurt; for a man that flies from his fear may find that he has only taken a short cut to meet it.“
J.R.R. Tolkien

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HI, welcome to Episode The Seventy-Eighth
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

We hope you find something of value here.

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(0:00) In the vast emptiness of space, there are voids

(13:31) Discussing the awesomeness of Mexico as a place to live

(20:09) An accidental consideration of Scientology

“Any intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex, and more violent. It takes a touch of genius—and a lot of courage—to move in the opposite direction.” E.F. Schumacher

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HI, welcome to Episode The Seventy-Seventh
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

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(0:00) Fourteen (14) countries worldwide have equal rights for women

(11:39) We are constructed of fuzzy clouds of probability

(23:01) Which is harder to understand: That woman are still largely not equals or that we are made of electron clouds?

“Courage is what others can’t see, what is never affirmed. It is made of what you have thrown away and then come back for.” Leonard Cohen

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HI, welcome to Episode The Seventy-Sixth
An entertaining, thoughtful and informative podcast. We lead and encourage conversation between adults, young adults and kids. Every Wednesday, we discuss topics of interest from both the younger and the older point of view.

We hope you find something of value here.

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(0:00) Coachella is now a corporate meet and greet

(15:30) Echolocation is a superpower

(23:29) Do we really need a toilet in the car?

“Any fool can criticize, condemn and complain - and most fools do. But it takes character and self control to be understanding and forgiving.” Dale Carnegie

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Scout and William

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