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It's time to partaaaaaay. And we're throwing our own party. In today's episode we tease out the discomfort and the opportunity that can come from tooting your own horn. And in 2026 we're calling for more of this! Take your bold authority and plan yourself the party, potluck, or night on the town that you've always wanted. Make it all yours, request the songs, say no, insist on the chocolate cake... you get the point🎂🎉 We're joined in this episode by Rebecca Ballantyne and somehow in the process we don't actually introduce her. She's in the middle of planning her 50th bday party and her wisdom is priceless. Thanks Reba❤️and we can't wait to party with you. 

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We're back at it but we're easing in and we hope you can too. How do we take breaks? Why are breaks important? We're breaking it down bit by juicy, drippy, bit. Actually, it's not juicy, I mean it's not sexy juicy. It's reality. But let's go easy huh? My dear friend recently purchased a hat that says "Rawdoggin Reality" and we hope that's not the vibe for your reentry😳. 

We pulled two cards from a gorgeous, stunning, powerful deck created by Missoula artist Eight Coins' Astrology Oracle. You can follow the artist on their website or on Instagram @eight.coins

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MWAH, now get out of here you dirty little biscuit. 

We're kissing 2025 goodbye and sharing our approach to entering a new year. We like to claim a bold word for the year, something to hold on to as we move through the inevitable complexities of life. What we know tho: what you think you're setting out to do/be/become/undo will likely take you somewhere totally unexpected and you will probably be better for it in the long run but it might not feel great while its happppppennnnnning. We're here for all of it so don't you worry. Whatever comes will come and then it will pass. xoxox I Adore the Hell Outta You no matter what. 

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All things beloved (and cursed) about the magical time of year we call Christmas. Laughter is a balm,  and we're serving up a nice juicy one to get you relaxed and, in the mood,...  In the mood for what is what we really want to know🤣 Tell us how your holiday goes- send us Fan Mail, shoot us an email [email protected] 

Tell us all about your marshmallow world ❤️

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"Because when you make people laugh, you make people listen"

We're thrilled to have Lynn Harris, CEO of Gold Comedy on the pod this week. Our conversation is a lesson in life-hacks because there is power in making people laugh, putting yourself out there over and over again, learning to fail safely, and creating the will to do it again. 

This is GOOD shit. Life shit. 

Check out Gold Comedy. 

One of our favorite skits: https://youtu.be/qIuuv2VrgNQ

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We're embracing the dark, not always willingly, but that's how it goes right?! 

In this season of darkness, we not editing out pauses on purpose. We're leaving them in because it's the season of slow(er) when it comes to shadow work. This shit doesn't happen fast, it isn't always pretty or pleasant, but it is necessary medicine. 

Instead of turning away from the shadow or trying to hide the struggle, we're walking with you right through it. Can't go under it. Can't go over it. Can't go around it. Gotta go through it. And through it we shall go🔦

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"I'm good". It rolls off the tongues of many teenagers so easily, so nonchalantly. We're learning from the kids how easy it can be to say no. Gosh they're smart and maybe they're on to something here😉. They usually are. 

Instead of being frustrated by the phrase we're going to claim it for our own. It's a pleasant and complete way of saying no- details not required. "I like what I like" is a quirky companion to "I'm good" - they both lead us to the conclusion that this isn't our first rodeo and we're taking this baby by the reigns. Giddyap 🐎

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🦃🥧You can really sink your teeth into this episode. It's juicy, it's salacious, it will get your giggle going.  Please, just let your hair down (all your hair) and ease into the feasting spirit.  Whatever is on your plate will be more palatable with our hot takes on pubic hair, vaginal cream, clunky sex, and queefing like the queen you are👑

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What would you do if no one was watching?

This week, we’re wading into the wild waters of playful inhibition, and the art of not taking ourselves too seriously. What if?? What might happen?? 

We're dropping truth bombs about what really happens when no one is watching us. Turns out its more like a confessional than a vision board... 

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This one really hit home! Is it control, is it fear, is it all an illusion anyway??!!! 

We're processing out loud and our inner werewolves are howling (again) as we wrestle with the illusion of control and what's at stake when we surrender. Is it a silver bullet solution or certain death? It can be hard to tell sometimes. 

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