Welcome to Episode 36 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 36, I Am Not a Victim, we help you reframe the mindset that traps many of us during divorce. It's common to feel that your spouse destroyed your family by having affairs, spending excessively, constantly criticizing or whatever other issues broke down your marriage. This puts us in a mindset of "I can't because" and when we start saying those words, we become weak, full of self-doubt, and vulnerable to continuing attacks from our ex. Wouldn't you rather feel strong, confident and immune to feelings about your ex and their shenanigans? Listen now as we help you transition from self-doubt to confidence! For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!